After a lengthy period indoors, we decided to tackle the overgrown garden and lawn. We spent hours outside, clearing away weeds and filling six yard waste bags. It was a gratifying experience, and I felt a sense of accomplishment as our neighborhood property values began to improve.
However, come Sunday, my body was protesting every movement. My arms, legs, shoulders, and back were sore, and my husband was in the same boat. Interestingly, our children, who had worked alongside us, seemed completely unscathed.
As I woke up today and prepared for my usual day at the clinic, I reflected on the recent physical toll of both perimenopause and the gardening battle. Thankfully, I was feeling much better than the day before. Arriving at the clinic early, I chatted with a medical assistant about her adorable 3-year-old son, eagerly asking to see a photo. When she inquired about whether I had children or grandchildren, I experienced a moment of surprise. While I am in my mid-40s and certainly at an age where becoming a grandmother is feasible, the question caught me off guard. My desire for grandchildren is strong, and it sparked a cascade of thoughts about the future.
I often express to my children how much I cherish each stage of life, feeling that aging brings depth and richness. I’ve embraced every hot flash (though I wouldn’t mind if they took a permanent vacation), every gray hair, and even the mild muscle fatigue from a day of weeding. I’ve made peace with the fact that it’s been years since I was carded. I genuinely relish this no-drama phase of life where I no longer tolerate nonsense.
That said, I would appreciate it if people would ask about my children instead. When I do become a grandmother, I hope you’ll express surprise and comment on how youthful I appear for my age. And please, let’s keep the air-conditioning cranked up.
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In summary, while the aches from gardening and the realities of aging can be daunting, they also come with a sense of fulfillment and anticipation for what lies ahead. Embracing every stage of life, I look forward to the future and the possibility of grandchildren, all while enjoying the present.