As my youngest child embarks on the new adventure of preschool, I can hardly believe that in just a couple of months, he will celebrate his third birthday. Recently, he transitioned to a big-boy bed and is now proudly wearing big-boy underwear. These significant milestones signal the impending conclusion of toddlerhood for my little one.
While it’s true that we still have several years of tantrums ahead—at least, that’s what my eldest, Emma, insists—simply reaching the age of three, starting school, and mastering potty training does not automatically transform him into a “big kid.” Nonetheless, I can feel the enchanting and tumultuous chapter of toddlerhood gradually coming to a close.
When my first child, Lily, entered her toddler years, I was overwhelmed by the intensity of the experience. The constant demands, emotional outbursts, and sheer force of will left me nearly in a state of panic. However, five years later, I find myself reflecting on this challenging yet rewarding phase with a sense of nostalgia. Yes, tantrums may be a constant in parenting, but the unique joys of toddlerhood are fleeting.
The Sweetness of Squishiness
If you haven’t experienced the warmth of a toddler’s hug, you truly haven’t felt the comfort that comes with it. Those delightful, chubby arms wrapped around you can make even the longest days seem worthwhile.
Unconditional Love
Though the constant need for closeness can be tiring, the love a toddler offers is genuine and pure. Their affection is palpable and often expressed with such intensity that you can’t help but feel enveloped in it.
A Fit on My Hip
While I may not always want my little one to cling to me, there are moments—especially in crowded places or when time is of the essence—when carrying him close is a comfort that cannot be matched.
Endearing Mispronunciations
Just last week, he asked to “waffle” something in my ear—an adorable mix-up I will surely miss as he grows.
Dripping in Affection
His admiration for my clothing and jewelry, coupled with his sincere “I love you,” reminds me of the sweetness of toddler love, which is a joy to behold.
Unfiltered Truth
Toddlers are refreshingly honest; their unfiltered responses offer clarity and insight, allowing parents to understand their world without the complexities that come later.
A World of Wonder
Simple experiences—like seeing a train or attending the county fair—become exhilarating adventures through their eyes. The innocence and awe with which they approach the world can reignite your own sense of wonder.
While these delightful traits won’t disappear overnight, I know that as my son approaches his third birthday, the essence of toddlerhood will begin to evolve. The baby fat will gradually give way to leaner limbs, and the fervent love will transform into a more sustainable bond. He may even remember our annual outings to the county fair, leaving me with only cherished memories of this remarkable period. And yes, the tantrums will remain—those are a part of the journey that never seems to fade.
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In summary, as I bid farewell to the toddler years, I do so with a mix of sadness and gratitude. Each moment, from the delightful mispronunciations to the unwavering love, has shaped my experience as a parent, and I will treasure these memories for years to come.