This is a snapshot of me with my wonderful family. We appear genuinely joyful in this image. Despite the sweltering heat as we strolled by the waterfront, running out of snacks, and perhaps a moment where I snapped at my partner for consuming the last bit of our water long before we reached the car—our happiness shines through. I frequently share moments like this on Instagram and Facebook; I’m certainly one of those parents who loves to document our lives digitally. I take pride in being the chronicler of our family’s joyful experiences.
However, occasionally I come across articles in my feed that criticize my enthusiasm for sharing happy moments on social media. Some suggest that doing so is detrimental to my children, annoying to others, or even grounds for being unfollowed or blocked. It can feel disheartening. [Insert all the big-eyed emojis and shoulder-shrugging GIFs here]
After a brief moment of doubt—am I portraying our lives as overly perfect?—I quickly remind myself: No, this is who we are. Here are the reasons I will continue to share our joyous moments online:
1. Social Media Can Foster Positivity
Surprisingly, social media isn’t solely a platform for self-indulgence or negativity. At its core, it is about connection. While these connections may be digital, they are real and impactful. We can uplift one another and spread positivity. Sharing happiness equates to sharing love.
2. Images Convey Powerful Narratives
There’s no need for further explanation; a single picture can tell countless stories.
3. Being Smaller Isn’t the Solution
We don’t need to diminish ourselves to make others feel better. To quote a wise figure, “As we let our own light shine, we unconsciously give other people permission to do the same.” Celebrate your joy! Share that adorable post-bath photo of your child or that sweet family moment because those instances make you feel good.
4. Life Can Be Challenging
We all experience tough times. For example, just a couple of weeks ago, my son brought home lice from a friend, leading to a cascade of challenges—infested children, a flooded basement due to a broken sump pump, and a damaged internet modem. It’s a lot to handle, especially with five kids! For every joyful image I post, I hope people recognize that there are countless less happy moments behind them too. I strive to be candid about both the highs and lows of our lives.
Ultimately, there is good in every day, lice or not. The more I seek out the positive, the more I discover it. As Maya Angelou wisely stated, “I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” This is the essence of my sharing—my hope is that when others see our happy moments, they, too, will feel uplifted.
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In conclusion, the act of sharing joyful moments serves a purpose beyond mere documentation; it fosters a sense of community and connection amidst the trials of life.