As a parent, I’ve come to realize that the version of me my children know is a far cry from who I used to be. They see the mom who sets limits on dinner options, complains about loud music at casual dining spots, and struggles to stay awake through a movie. It’s a bit of a bummer, really. I sometimes wish they could have glimpsed the younger, free-spirited me before motherhood took hold. Here are some things about my past life that they might find surprising.
1. I Used to Have a Colorful Vocabulary
I recently had a moment of shock over your casual use of “oh my gosh,” but I must admit that there was a time when my language was far more colorful. I didn’t just throw around a few choice expletives; I was known for my creative curse words. I regularly used terms that would make a sailor blush. However, now that you’re listening to every word I say, my vocabulary has toned down significantly. I apologize for making faces when you say “what the heck.” I know it’s all part of growing up, but I have to maintain some semblance of decorum.
2. I Used to Enjoy the Nightlife
One day, you might come home smelling of something that I would find concerning. Just know that I wasn’t always the strict parent who says “no” to underage drinking. Back in the day, I was all about having a good time. I’ve had nights where I danced until dawn, ate questionable late-night food, and even bought a Christmas tree at an outrageous hour. Though I made some reckless choices, I’m thankful that I always made it home safe and sound. So, take my advice: don’t drink and drive, respect others, and stay safe. You’ll have your chance to celebrate responsibly when you turn 21.
3. I Wasn’t Always a Taskmaster
I understand that I can come off as a bit of a nag sometimes—“Eat your vegetables! Hurry up and get ready!” But I wasn’t always this way. There was a time when I could lounge around, enjoy breakfast for dinner, and indulge in late-night TV binges. Your dad and I would even stay up late watching shows without a care in the world. Unfortunately, the responsibilities of parenthood mean I have to enforce a routine. While I would love to let loose and have fun, I have to keep you on track. But here’s a deal: this weekend, you can have waffles for dinner if I can sleep in until noon.
4. I Used to Think I Was Cool
Okay, I know this one might be hard to believe, but I once thought I was pretty cool. Trust me on this one, kids.
5. I Always Dreamed of Being Your Mom
Before I knew all the things I wanted in life, I had one dream: to be a mom. Long before the responsibilities and chaos that come with raising children, I envisioned a family and found joy in that thought. In a sense, I was destined to be your mom even before I became one. Yes, life has changed me, but you have given me the greatest gift of all. You made my dreams a reality, and I would happily give up everything else for the chance to be your mother.
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In summary, while my children may only know the responsible mom I am today, there’s a rich history that shaped me. From my colorful language to wild nights out, I hope they can appreciate the journey that led to their arrival.