As the warm months approach, many people around us become fixated on the idea of shedding layers and flaunting skin that has been tucked away during the long winter. They debate the relevance of tights, rush to beauty stores for the latest self-tanners, and eagerly discuss their sunbathing strategies. However, I am here to present a case for embracing a summer without tanning, bronzing, or artificial color enhancements.
You see, I happen to be the product of a genetic mix between a sun-loving dad whose tan resembled milk chocolate by midsummer, and a fair-skinned mother whose freckles flared up with the mere mention of “sunshine.” While I have the potential to tan, I have chosen to celebrate my naturally pale skin. No amount of external pressure can persuade me to change this aspect of my identity.
Throughout the years, I have experimented with self-tanners, but the results were less than desirable. My attempts to achieve an even glow often resulted in streaks that resembled a poorly executed paint job. The bronzers? A dreadful reminder of messy chocolate cake mix. After spending time and money on products that didn’t deliver, I decided it was time to accept my skin as it is.
While some may suggest gradually reducing my SPF for a subtle tan, the reality is that my family history includes a variety of skin cancers, including melanoma. The risk simply isn’t worth it. Moreover, sunburns are not just uncomfortable; they are painful, and I have no desire to endure that kind of suffering.
I have grown accustomed to people mistakenly believing that my paleness is a sign of illness, rather than a natural trait. Comments about being “transparent” or the endless vampire jokes have become par for the course. I find it absurd that anyone—regardless of their skin tone—should feel pressured to conform to societal beauty standards or feel shame for their genetics. Recently, I had a conversation with a friend who possesses a darker complexion, and we discovered that we both faced similar criticisms regarding our skin color. It’s a baffling phenomenon that I refuse to engage with any longer.
Instead, I have chosen to embrace the qualities of my pale skin that have historically been deemed undesirable. Here are some benefits of my choice:
- No tan lines to worry about when selecting summer attire.
- I save money on products that could inadvertently make me look like an Oompa Loompa.
- I don’t have to buy multiple makeup shades throughout the year; my complexion remains consistent.
- My diligent use of sunscreen is likely responsible for occasionally being carded when purchasing alcohol.
- Unlike those who struggle with melted bronzer, my makeup stays intact, regardless of the heat.
- Above all, I have learned to accept and love myself just as I am.
If you find yourself teasing someone about their fair skin or suggesting they need a “fix,” consider shifting your perspective. Instead of judgment, why not acknowledge their self-acceptance? Recognizing the beauty in their natural state may inspire you to embrace your own unique features.
And just to clarify: I’m not merely pale; I’m porcelain.
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In summary, there is beauty in embracing your natural skin tone, whether it be light or dark. Accepting yourself leads to greater self-confidence and a more authentic experience in life.