Dear Pre-Pregnancy Curves,
As my body has transformed profoundly since welcoming my children, it is you that I find myself longing for the most. Yes, I miss laughing without worrying about unexpected surprises. I miss my favorite shoes which I had to part with when my feet grew a size. And of course, a toned midsection seems like a distant memory. But you, my dear curves, were the highlight of my figure—an unwavering source of confidence that remains etched in my memory.
In my earlier days, you were the epitome of allure. A delightful B+, you were just the right size. While bras were an option, you were perfectly proportioned—small enough not to require them but ample enough to give my slender frame some enticing curves and femininity.
In the words of a beloved sitcom, you were genuine and truly spectacular.
Reflecting on our time together, I realize I may have taken you for granted. You remained loyal for over a decade, and I never fully appreciated your presence. Perhaps I didn’t express my gratitude, or maybe I didn’t care for you as I should have. As soon as I stopped breastfeeding, however, you made your exit.
You diminished. You lost your shape. My once-full B+ breasts deflated into mere shadows of their former selves, resembling sad, flat A cups.
I must emphasize, though, that I am in awe of your accomplishments. You nourished two little ones! What an incredible feat! You did this without any of the distressing challenges I feared, like painful nipples or mastitis. Kudos to you!
Yet now that your primary role is complete, it feels as if you have decided I no longer require your presence. While I may not need you, I certainly desire you! I want you to help rekindle my sense of femininity amidst the chaos of motherhood.
Alas, no heartfelt pleas—unless made to a plastic surgeon—will restore you to your former glory. So, I must learn to accept this new reality. But before I move on, I want to express my appreciation. Thank you for the years we shared. Thank you for the confidence you gave me during my school dance. Thank you for perfectly filling out summer dresses and tank tops sans a bra. Most importantly, thank you for nurturing my children.
I know I am more than the sum of my physical parts. I can still feel attractive (when I manage to find time for a shower). I am still me. So while my once-spectacular curves may have faded, at least I have a few well-padded bras to lend me a hand.
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In summary, while my pre-pregnancy curves may no longer be with me, the memories and experiences we shared will always hold a special place in my heart. Embracing this new journey means recognizing the beauty in change and celebrating the incredible capabilities of my body.