In recent discussions online, a piece titled “I Get A Wife Bonus And I Deserve It, So STFU” highlighted a woman’s viewpoint on the perks she receives as a stay-at-home mom, including a percentage of her husband’s bonus for high-end purchases. While this perspective might seem extravagant to many, it underscores the unique financial dynamics some couples navigate. As a stay-at-home mom myself, I find my own set of “bonuses” that may not come with a designer price tag, but are invaluable in their own right.
Here are ten aspects of my life that I proudly consider my “Wife Bonuses”:
- Clean Drinking Water: The convenience of fresh water flowing from my tap is a daily luxury. My children rarely feel thirsty—except, of course, at midnight when they seem determined to disrupt my sleep.
- A Secure Home: Having a roof over our heads is a profound comfort, especially during Colorado’s lengthy winters. My partner, who works diligently outside the home, provides this sanctuary, and I appreciate it immensely.
- Impulsive Purchases from the Local Store: There’s an exhilarating thrill that comes with buying a $15 shirt I didn’t need. It’s a small, delightful indulgence that reminds me of my youth and spontaneity.
- Footwear: I am grateful for the shoes I wear, which I acquired through my efforts of managing the household. The work I do—cooking, cleaning, budgeting, and nurturing—may not seem glamorous, but it allows me to enjoy simple pleasures like wearing shoes.
- Access to Healthcare: If my children fall ill, I have the privilege of taking them to a doctor that same day. The ability to secure medicine and treatment is a priceless asset.
- Well-rounded Children: My kids are learning that their mother’s worth isn’t tied to her appearance. While I may indulge in self-care routines, it’s crucial for me to instill values of self-acceptance and confidence in them.
- The Joy of Choosing: I have the power to make decisions that affect our family. From meals to clothing to household supplies, I revel in the choices I make daily, even if it sometimes feels overwhelming.
- Quality Clothing for My Kids: I can dress my children in fantastic second-hand clothes that they love—it’s all about vibrant colors and fun textures for them, regardless of the brand.
- The Gift of Time: Staying home with my children is a choice I cherish, despite the challenges it brings. There are days when my three-year-old’s antics test my patience, yet every moment is a learning experience.
- The True Ultimate Bonus: While some may equate luxury with designer brands, I believe the greatest bonus of all is teaching my children the value of simplicity and that material possessions do not define their worth.
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In summary, the life of a stay-at-home mom is filled with rewarding experiences that may not always be materialistic but are indeed enriching. These moments of joy, choice, and love are what truly constitute my bonuses.