In today’s digital age, many parents find themselves grappling with the phenomenon of “oversharenting,” where they share extensive details about their children’s lives online. A recent study from the University of Michigan’s C.S. Mott Children’s Hospital indicates that this trend is common, with over half of mothers and a third of fathers admitting to discussing their children’s health and parenting experiences on social media.
However, where do we draw the line between sharing and oversharing? For instance, one might wonder if posting an embarrassing moment, like a failed attempt at potty training, crosses a boundary. As Sarah J. Clark, M.P.H., points out, by the time children are old enough to engage on social platforms, a digital footprint is often already established for them by their parents. This can lead to situations where children may feel uncomfortable about what has been shared about them, but once information is online, it can be challenging to retract.
Interestingly, as parents actively engage in sharing, many children are opting out of these platforms altogether. Instead of joining the parental oversharing party on Facebook—deemed by my 12-year-old as a space for “old people”—many young people are migrating to sites like SnapChat and Oovoo, which allow them to curate their online presence more privately and fleetingly. This shift effectively renders parental oversharing less impactful, as kids choose to control their narratives away from their parents’ watchful eyes.
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In summary
As we navigate the complexities of parenting in the digital realm, it’s crucial to be mindful of the content we share about our children online. While the intention may be to celebrate their milestones, we must consider the potential impact on their privacy and autonomy as they grow older.