Moms on Facebook, it’s time for a candid conversation. While I genuinely appreciate and admire many of you—and yes, I often borrow your recipes and craft ideas—there are a few who consistently drive me nuts and really need to take it down a notch. Here’s what I mean:
- The “I-Gave-Birth-So-I’m-An-Expert” Mom: Let’s acknowledge the monumental effort it takes to become a mother. The transformation you undergo in that delivery room (or inflatable kiddie pool) is real and commendable. However, motherhood does not confer expertise in fields like medicine or child development. While your experiences are valuable, they don’t make you a pediatrician or a lactation specialist. Unless you possess actual qualifications, please refrain from presenting yourself as an authority.
- The “Delivery-Was-A-Horror-Story” Mom: We all know that childbirth can be harrowing, but there’s no need to share graphic details about your experience. Descriptions of extreme scenarios—like your child supposedly yanking organs during delivery—can be unsettling, to say the least. Trust me, some things are better left unsaid.
- The “Gerber-Baby-Contest” Mom: I get it; you believe your little one is the epitome of cuteness. However, keep in mind that every other parent likely feels the same about their child. This leads to an overwhelming number of contests and “like-to-vote” posts. Just a gentle reminder: not every child can grace the front of a food jar.
- The “Johnny-Had-A-Poopoo” Mom: While photos of your adorable child are welcome, updates about potty training mishaps or diaper disasters are not. We know what goes into that red plastic potty, and trust me, it’s not cute. You might think your posts are garnering attention, but for every “like,” there are several eye-rolls. If you’re okay with that, then go ahead and post away.
- The “Diagnose-My-Kids-Medical-Emergency” Mom: In the event of an injury—like when Jessica takes a tumble off her bike and there’s a visible bone—posting a picture on social media is not the best course of action. Prompt medical attention should take precedence over social media updates. It’s crucial to prioritize your child’s health over online validation.
Let’s be real; none of us are perfect, and I’ve fallen into some of these traps myself from time to time. However, it’s important to take a step back and consider the content we share online. Think before you post, please.
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In summary, while the journey of motherhood is filled with challenges and triumphs, it’s essential to communicate responsibly on social media. Let’s support one another without the excess drama.