I understand that you are navigating one of the most challenging phases of your life. While you are seeking our support for your concerns, we are often preoccupied with the demands of parenting a toddler and an infant. I apologize for the times when your homework requests coincide with chaotic bath times filled with toddler meltdowns.
I regret that instead of fully focusing on your achievements at sports events, our attention is divided between cheering for you and managing a little one who is eager to explore muddy puddles or engage in mischief. I know that as you begin to discover relationships and gain independence, the toddler’s relentless chatter can drown out your voice.
I’m sorry that our attention often shifts to the baby whenever you seek to engage us in conversation. I regret that when you were ready to start learning to drive, we hesitated to let you take the little ones along, delaying your hours behind the wheel. I apologize for not being able to pick you up more often after work, as we are sometimes occupied with settling your baby brother or dozing off while waiting for your message.
I acknowledge that my memory isn’t what it used to be, especially when it comes to remembering your game schedules, as sleep has been a rare commodity for us lately. I apologize for the interruptions during your moments of discipline, courtesy of the youngest sibling providing unsolicited commentary.
I regret that your personal space is often invaded by early morning wake-up calls from your sibling, who jumps on your bed with exuberance. I understand that you’d prefer to surf together, but instead, we spend our days at the beach managing little ones while they build sandcastles.
I’m sorry for the times we opted to see animated films instead of action-packed blockbusters that you would have preferred. I realize that weekends filled with play centers and parks can feel tiresome when you’d rather be trying out go-karting or skiing.
While I know you long for a bit of peace from the toddler chaos, I’m not sorry for the joy your little siblings experience when you walk through the door. I can’t apologize for the way your sister eagerly anticipates your return, asking repeatedly about your whereabouts.
I’m also not sorry for the loyalty and admiration your siblings have for you; they see you as their role model. I recognize that you may have to share your special day with your brother, but it creates a bond that will last a lifetime. Your growth as a big brother is commendable, and I hope it equips you for future responsibilities.
These experiences are shaping you into a kind, responsible individual, and as you continue to grow into adulthood, know that we are incredibly proud of your patience and strength. Thank you for your understanding and love as we navigate this imperfect journey together.
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In summary, though the demands of parenting may sometimes overshadow your needs, your role as a sibling and a son is invaluable, and we appreciate your understanding as we all learn and grow together.