When flying isn’t an option, my two kids and I often embark on a 6.5-hour car journey from Boulder to the Black Hills of South Dakota to visit my parents. We make this round trip about three times a year. It sounds simple, but I’ve learned a few strategies to make the experience smoother. Here are some insights:
- Limit Interaction: For parents who are used to constant engagement, this might be surprising. However, I’ve found that the less I engage with my children, the less they demand my attention. If you enjoy endless renditions of “She’ll Be Coming Around the Mountain” and catering to tiny tyrants, perhaps this advice isn’t for you.
- Perfect Your Disciplinary Stare: As the driver, you’ll need a powerful look to maintain order at 75 mph. My mother mastered this expression, and I can still feel the tension it caused. If your kids instantly quiet down and retreat at the sight of your face, you’ve nailed it. A little mirror practice can help.
- Be Prepared for Urgent Bathroom Breaks: While this may be frowned upon, emergencies can arise when least expected. If you find yourself in a situation with no facilities, pull over discreetly and create a makeshift bathroom between the doors of your car. It’s not glamorous, but it’s effective.
- Pack a Snack Cooler: Fill a cooler with easy-to-eat snacks like cheese sticks, sandwiches, and fruit. However, avoid giving toddlers yogurt tubes or those packets with straw tops, as they can lead to quite a mess.
- Forget Potty Training for the Trip: Simply put, if your little one is still in the process of potty training, put a diaper on them for the duration of the journey and save yourself the stress.
- Use AM Static During Meltdowns: When faced with a crying child who refuses to be consoled, try tuning into AM static. It’s a surprising yet effective way to calm them down when everything else fails.
- Check the Weather Beforehand: Avoid traveling in adverse weather conditions. It can create unnecessary stress and danger. I learned this the hard way during a snowstorm that turned a simple trip into a nightmare.
- Encourage Observation: Every once in a while, remind your kids to appreciate their surroundings. On one trip, my son humorously asked if he had to keep “appreciatin’ the scenery.” Yes, you do!
- Invest in Their Entertainment: Instead of trying to please everyone’s musical tastes, equip your kids with headphones and a charged device for their shows or games. Meanwhile, treat yourself to an audiobook—perhaps a young adult novel to keep things interesting. Remember: a happy driver leads to a happy family.
- Stay Relaxed: Flexibility is key. There will be moments of frustration, but take a deep breath and dig into your well of patience. Someday, they might repay you by driving you around!
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In summary, road trips with children can be manageable and even enjoyable with the right strategies in place. Remember to stay calm, be prepared, and embrace the journey.