Dear Little One,
Hello! It’s your mom, and I’m counting down the days until we finally meet. Your nursery is nearly ready in our new home. While we felt a tinge of sadness leaving the city, our priority was to ensure that you and your older sibling have access to top-notch schools. We now have a spacious playroom, a large yard, and four bedrooms for you, your sibling, and perhaps another little one in the future.
The anticipation of your arrival has been palpable. What could possibly be taking you so long? Are you being considerate of your fellow first-time family members? It’s quite thoughtful, but honestly, everyone we know is either expecting or already has a child. This December, our holiday cards were filled with birth announcements—half of them! You won’t have to worry about stepping on anyone’s toes once you arrive.
Are you trying to teach me the value of patience? I realize this is not my strongest attribute. While I manage well with your older sibling, put me in a traffic jam or face a tech issue, and I tend to lose my composure.
Will you take after me and be a little slow in making your grand entrance? I’ve always been the last one out of the school doors, according to Grandma.
Are you concerned that my love for your sibling might limit the affection I can give you? That’s far from the truth! My love for your brother does not lessen my eagerness to welcome you into our lives. In fact, it’s because of the love I already have for him that I can’t wait to see the two of you grow together.
Are you worried about making me feel unwell during this pregnancy? We’re well-equipped with three bathrooms in our home, and I’d willingly endure any discomfort for you.
What about back pain? That’s what prenatal yoga is for! I’m excited to sign up and prepare for your arrival.
Are you concerned that I might be disappointed if you turn out to be a boy, as I suspect, rather than a girl, as your father believes? Rest assured, I will embrace you wholeheartedly, regardless of gender. Plus, it means I won’t have to learn how to deal with a daughter’s needs.
You are constantly on my mind—every single day, more times than I can count. I find myself daydreaming about cuddling with you after you nurse, witnessing your first steps, and feeling emotional as you embark on your first day of Kindergarten.
So, what’s the holdup? Why hasn’t pregnancy happened yet? At times, I fear that your brother’s conception was a miraculous fluke, and that having more children may not be in the cards for me. Please help dispel those fears. Join our loving family; there is so much affection waiting for you.
Your older sibling will be starting preschool this fall, and when Grandpa inquired about my plans during that time, my heart yearned to spend it with you. Until then, I’ll be right here… waiting.
With all my love,
Mom
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Summary:
This heartfelt letter from a mother to her unborn child expresses the excitement and anticipation of welcoming a new family member. It addresses common concerns and reassures the child about the immense love and space available for them in the family.