Updated: Aug. 2, 2016
Originally Published: Sep. 21, 2012
In their early years, our children rely on us for virtually everything. From helping them burp to supporting their first attempts at independence, it is our role as parents to guide them toward self-sufficiency. I previously discussed the challenge of letting go as our children mature, highlighting that they often recognize their readiness for new experiences before we do.
At the heart of this transition lies the child’s assertion, “Hey Mom or Dad, I’ve got this,” and our willingness to trust them. For instance, you might hesitate to offer your baby finger foods, but when she confidently munches on a Cheerio and beams, “No problem. I’ve got this, Mom,” it can be a reassuring sign. Similarly, when your toddler releases your hand and takes those first few steps, looking up with a determined smile, he’s communicating that he’s ready for more.
As they grow, these moments continue: your child separates from you at preschool, bravely stepping into a new classroom despite the tears; she rides her bike without training wheels for the first time, exclaiming, “I’ve got this, Mom!” These small triumphs—whether it’s jumping off the diving board or heading off to a sleepover—demonstrate their growing confidence.
Each milestone is a reminder that while we may have reservations, children frequently display an innate sense of readiness for independence. Even as they face challenges, such as breaking a bone, they reassure us with a resolute “I’ve got this.” Transitions like starting school or joining a sports team are accompanied by their enthusiastic declarations of competence.
The journey does not come without setbacks; mistakes are part of their learning process, and at times, we may disagree on their readiness for certain responsibilities. However, it seems that children truly understand when they are prepared to tackle new challenges, and often we can recognize these signals as well.
Recently, I took my eldest child, Sarah, to her high school orientation. Sitting in the car, we shared a moment of apprehension as we gazed at the daunting building ahead. I kissed her cheek, wishing her the best, and as she stepped out, I smiled and said, “Hey, you’ve got this.”
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In summary, as parents, we witness our children’s remarkable growth through their declarations of self-sufficiency. Each “I’ve got this” moment not only marks a milestone in their independence but also reinforces our need to trust them as they venture into new phases of their lives.