Yesterday marked the seventh birthday of my son, Ethan. Coincidentally, he had a day off from school due to optional parent-teacher conferences. I decided to seize the opportunity to spend quality time together. With it being his special day, my objective was clear: to embody the ideal mother—attentive, caring, and fully engaged.
A Special Breakfast
The day commenced not with quick breakfast options like cold cereal or bars, but with freshly made chocolate chip pancakes. “You actually know how to make pancakes?” my little one asked, eyes wide with surprise. Yes, Ethan, I do!
Assembling Toys
I dedicated about four hours assembling various toys that, in hindsight, I probably shouldn’t have purchased due to their complicated instructions. Yet, I persevered and managed to piece them all together, only muttering five expletives and ending up with three leftover pieces.
Birthday Celebrations
Ethan celebrated his birthday at a pinball museum in the afternoon, surrounded by friends. I enthusiastically joined in on activities like flag football and catch, while also playing the role of a cheerful hostess. Remarkably, I maintained my composure throughout the day, displaying an abundance of patience. If the birthday boy wanted to take twenty minutes to put on his shoes, I was all for it.
Being Present
Whenever he needed me, I was present—100%. There were no work interruptions, no television to distract us, and no “just a minute” responses. I was a completely engaged mother for the entire day.
A Heartfelt Moment
As I tucked him in that night, I asked if he enjoyed his birthday. With a big smile, he declared it was the best, and my heart swelled with pride.
The Importance of Quality Time
This experience reinforced the significance of being fully present with my children. They deserve a warm breakfast and a mother who remains calm and focused on them. While it was rewarding, I must admit that such dedicated parenting can be quite taxing. Thank goodness birthdays only come once a year; being the perfect mom is truly exhausting.
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Conclusion
In summary, spending a day fully engaged with my son on his birthday not only made him happy but also reminded me of the importance of quality time. Although challenging, these moments are invaluable and worth the effort.