Parenting
We Are the Creators of Extraordinary Moments
by Emily Harper
Updated: Dec. 18, 2015
Originally Published: Feb. 8, 2012
Reflecting on my childhood summer camp experiences, I remember the counselors speaking of something they called “camp magic.” Days filled with themes, like Pirate Day, where we donned bandanas and eye patches, and participated in lighthearted team activities, were more about fun than competition. I recall playful raids, like when the male counselors moved all the dining hall’s contents outdoors for a communal breakfast by the flagpole, embracing the fresh morning air and sunshine. There were barbecues and fireworks for the Fourth of July, spontaneous dances on the girls’ side, and evening traditions such as ice cream socials. Bonfires, skits, and camper-counselor stunt nights added to the charm. I distinctly remember my first solo sailboat experience and my triumph in getting up on water skis. These moments created a tapestry of magical memories.
As campers, we were blissfully unaware that our counselors meticulously orchestrated these enchanting experiences. Now, I recognize the effort they put into crafting that magic for us.
At 12, my counselor was a remarkable woman named Lisa. While not the most popular among the staff, she was unique. Instead of rushing off to socialize after her duties, she chose to read The Little Prince aloud to us every night. We listened with rapt attention as she transported us to distant worlds while the gentle sounds of the lake accompanied us. Those nights ended with us drifting off to sleep, inspired by the adventures of the little prince.
One summer morning, Lisa surprised us by waking us before the morning bell. She instructed us to dress and bring bathing suits and towels. We hopped into the camp van, giggling, and headed to a local diner for breakfast before spending the day at the beach near the bridge. She had prepared packed lunches, allowing us to enjoy sandwiches and sodas while soaking up the sun. I have snapshots taken with a disposable camera of us laughing, playing, and enjoying our time together—our happy, sun-kissed faces captured long before selfies became a trend. On our way back, we even stopped for peach milkshakes.
That day was sheer magic—a memory I will cherish forever. I am eternally grateful to Lisa for crafting such a joyous experience for me and my friends. I wish I could find her to express my appreciation for the lasting impact she made on my childhood.
At 16, I became a Junior Counselor, responsible for a group of young girls. Lacking proper guidance, I navigated this transition clumsily. I was still focused on my enjoyment and didn’t fully grasp that it was my responsibility to create that same camp magic for the younger campers. Some counselors joked about how the magic was lost during tough times, but in truth, it was always there—we just needed to summon it.
I truly understood this concept when I became a parent. I realize now that we adults—whether parents or camp counselors—are the true creators of extraordinary moments. Children have only one childhood, so it’s our duty to make it as magical as possible. It’s about crafting experiences, whether it’s serving chocolate chip pancakes on Sundays, leaving notes from the tooth fairy, or keeping the spirit of Santa Claus alive. Take them outside on starry nights, embark on bike rides, or experience fireworks through their eyes. Share special books, surprise them with trips to the zoo, or enjoy lazy pajama days filled with movies. It’s about creating memories, traditions, and snapshots they will treasure as adults.
Yes, destinations like Disney World are magical, and my memories from our family trip are vivid. However, I also cherish simpler moments, like tending the garden with my mom or watching thunderstorms from the porch with my siblings. It’s about the quality time and effort we invest in our children.
On chilly nights, after homework is complete, we gather around the fireplace. Our older kids strum their guitars, and we sing along. If I’ve planned ahead, we even indulge in making s’mores.
Creating magic requires effort, planning, and dedication. But we are the magic makers, and we have a singular opportunity to make it happen.
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Summary: The essence of parenting lies in creating magical moments for children, much like the counselors at summer camp did. Through thoughtful planning and engagement, parents can craft unforgettable experiences that shape their children’s memories for a lifetime.