I see you. I recognize the strength it takes to wear your hijab while balancing your daily responsibilities, including the five prayers that guide your life. I see you striving for normalcy, adhering to the tenets of your faith, nurturing your family, and putting in the hard work that defines your daily existence.
I remember when fear gripped your heart, keeping you from sending your child back to school after a tragic event shook our community on September 11, 2001. It wasn’t until we visited your home and reassured you that your child was safe among us that you found the courage to let them return. Now, I see you fleeing unimaginable horrors in search of safety for your children, leaving behind everything familiar—the place you once called home. Despite the dire circumstances you face during your escape, you know that they are better than the suffering you endured before. You are a mother, just like me, who would sacrifice everything for your children’s safety.
I see your struggle to find a place of refuge amidst daunting bureaucratic challenges. You are acutely aware of the backlash and hostility directed towards you by those who want to shut their borders out of fear—fear that among you may lurk those intent on causing harm. But you are one of the innocent ones. And I see you.
Do you see me? Do you notice my light complexion, the Bible on my table, and the Western lifestyle I lead? I share a resemblance with individuals who have perpetrated horrific acts throughout history—those who have committed genocide, enslaved others, and used violence in the name of faith. I know I could easily blend into their crowd, yet I stand apart. Their beliefs are antithetical to my own, and I actively oppose them. Do you recognize me?
You may hail from the same regions as those who perpetuate terror. You might even share the same customs and practices. But I am certain that you are not one of them. You are running away from their cruelty. My heart as a mother aches for your plight.
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In summary, I see you, and I recognize your struggle. You are not alone in this journey, and there is hope for a better future.