We need to discuss our current situation. I know that our passionate nights spent trying to conceive created a routine of intimacy that you’ve grown accustomed to, but things are shifting. Just a few months ago, I was feeling great and full of energy. However, now that I’m pregnant, my desire has taken a backseat. You may still find me attractive, but I’m struggling to feel that connection. Here are five reasons behind this shift:
1. My Skin is Acting Up
I’ve reverted to a teenage state with breakouts not only on my face but also on my chest. While I survived those awkward years without feeling self-conscious, it’s a different story now. The thought of you being close to my skin, which is currently dealing with this issue, feels uncomfortable, even though we’ve been through so much together.
2. My Sense of Smell is Heightened
The odors around me have become overwhelming. For instance, the onion rings you had last week are still lingering in the air, no matter how much you brush your teeth. My heightened sense of smell is making it challenging for me to be intimate, as I can detect every scent with alarming clarity.
3. Digestive Issues
My body is experiencing some serious turmoil. One moment I’m constipated, and the next I’m dealing with the opposite. With my digestive tract in such disarray, the idea of intimacy is quite unappealing.
4. Limited Mobility
I feel cumbersome right now. My growing belly, along with some extra weight from those comfort foods I’ve been eating to combat nausea, makes it challenging to engage in any positions that might have been enjoyable before. It’s not the most flexible time in my life, and that can be disheartening.
5. We Have an Audience
Although our doctor has reassured us that intimacy is fine and the baby won’t notice, it feels strange. Would you be comfortable being intimate with one of our children in the room? Of course not. The baby may be oblivious, but it’s a different experience knowing they’re there.
Sweetheart, I assure you that this phase is temporary, and my desire will return. If you consider the short age gaps between our children, you can see that there is hope for the future. For more information on navigating pregnancy and intimacy, you can check out this excellent resource. Also, if you’re curious about improving our fertility journey, these supplements could be beneficial.
In the meantime, let’s embrace this journey together, and I promise we’ll get back to where we once were.