Updated: May 24, 2016
Originally Published: Sep. 12, 2011
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Physical Abilities Reassessed
Becoming a father has highlighted my lack of athletic prowess. Watching my son fumble with a nerf ball from a mere foot away reinforces that being cut from the eighth-grade baseball team was likely a wise choice. For every aspiring superstar at the playground, there exist countless children whose talents lie elsewhere—perhaps in competitive snack consumption. -
Cell Phones: A Double-Edged Sword
It’s nearly impossible to conceal a cell phone from a curious child. My son mastered the art of swiping open my iPhone at just ten months old. While handing him the device can temporarily quell his cries, it also sets off a relentless quest for my phone anytime he hears the familiar sounds of Daniel Tiger. -
Judgment from Fellow Parents
As the primary caregiver for my son, I’ve noticed that some mothers at the park give me wary looks. Although not all moms react this way, it often feels like I’m under a microscope whenever I arrive. Their suspicion suggests they think I’m up to no good, despite the fact that I’m simply trying to enjoy time with my child. -
Parental Expectations for Dads
There’s an undeniable truth: the bar is set considerably lower for fathers. When a mother takes her child out and there’s a stain on their shirt, she receives judgmental glares. Conversely, dads are often praised for merely being present, even if their child is wearing mismatched shoes. This disparity is not lost on us. -
Previous Judgments Reconsidered
Before I became a dad, I often made sweeping statements about parenting, such as criticizing those who traveled with young kids or assumed temper tantrums were purely the result of poor parenting. I owe a heartfelt apology to all parents I may have judged between 2000 and 2013. -
Time Takes on New Meaning
Ten minutes can feel like an eternity when your child is screaming in the backseat. In those moments, every second stretches, filled with attempts to soothe and distract while listening to the same children’s songs on repeat. It’s a stark contrast to the days when ten minutes was simply my shower time. -
The Art of Sneaking Snacks
Leading by example is crucial when it comes to healthy eating. However, when faced with a bag of chips, it becomes nearly impossible to indulge without facing relentless begging from my little one. Thus, sneaking a few cookies behind a newspaper becomes a necessary strategy for self-preservation. -
Small Shoes as Potential Weapons
If researchers could harness the pain inflicted by a toddler’s kicks while wearing their tiny shoes, we would have an unbeatable weapon. Those seemingly innocent toddler-sized shoes can deliver a surprisingly painful blow to the ankles. -
Delegating Household Chores
Every father eventually realizes that certain chores can be passed down to their children. Whether it’s mowing the lawn or taking out the trash, we start mentally preparing for the day our kids can take on these tasks that seem too laborious at the moment. -
The Quilt Conundrum
Before parenthood, quilts were not part of our household. Now, we find ourselves with an overwhelming number—eight in total! While I appreciate the kindness of friends and family, I urge potential gift-givers to consider alternatives. However, should an apocalyptic winter occur, we are well-prepared.
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