As a child, I frequently inquired with my parents about their levels of enthusiasm for upcoming events. Whether we were heading to a birthday party at a skating rink, visiting relatives, embarking on a Girl Scout camping trip, or going to the movies, I would always ask, “Are you excited?” My youthful perspective led me to believe that their excitement mirrored mine.
Without exception, their reply was consistent. “Excited? We’re looking forward to it,” they would say. I found it peculiar that they didn’t share the same exuberance I felt about a local fair, ice skating, or a concert by a popular artist. I would often think about how unfortunate it must be to grow older. However, I never considered asking them about their feelings regarding significant life events or travel—those things that didn’t capture my attention at the time. It’s a natural trait of children to focus on their own experiences.
Recently, I took a brief trip to the beach with my family. While outlining our plans for the kids—such as walking along the boardwalk, enjoying ice cream, playing games, swimming in the pool, and relaxing on the beach—my daughter, Emma, eagerly asked if I was excited. “Excited?” I paused to reflect. “Not really excited, but I’m definitely looking forward to it.” And I truly was.
There are, however, moments that do spark genuine excitement, like the first day of school. It dawned on me that I have officially transformed into my parents.
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Conclusion
In summary, the perception of excitement evolves over time, transitioning into a perspective of anticipation and appreciation for experiences. As we grow, we may find ourselves mirroring the attitudes of our parents, embodying a mix of enthusiasm and reflection as we navigate life’s milestones.