As my kids have grown and we’ve finally bid farewell to those endless episodes of Caillou, my husband and I have embarked on a delightful journey of introducing our tweens to the cinematic treasures of the 1980s. These films transport me back to a time of oversized hair, layered socks, and countless hours spent on my pink princess phone—truly a glorious era for cinema. I take pride in the fact that my generation gifted the world memorable classics like Spies Like Us and Caddyshack, with iconic performances from legends like John Candy, Dan Aykroyd, and the ever-charming Molly Ringwald.
The films of the ‘80s tackled a myriad of themes, from societal challenges and teenage heartbreak to whimsical time travel. We learned valuable lessons about friendship, courage, and romance through the lens of John Hughes’ storytelling. Honestly, who hasn’t dreamed of having John Cusack serenading them outside their window with a boom box?
Watching these beloved films with my children has revealed that many of them offer insightful lessons that can aid us Gen X parents during the often challenging tween years. So, if you’re looking for some parenting inspiration, here are 12 common tween dilemmas paired with the perfect ‘80s film to guide you:
- If your tween is dealing with bullying, Some Kind of Wonderful is a must-watch. It’s always uplifting to see the good guy triumph in the end. And those earrings? Totally iconic, Mary Stuart Masterson.
- For your tween who needs a crash course in babysitting, look no further than Adventures in Babysitting, complete with a Thor hat. Learning how to belt out the blues can definitely give them an edge in the babysitting game.
- If your teen needs to embrace spontaneity and fun, Ferris Bueller’s Day Off is the perfect antidote. After all, who wouldn’t want to enjoy a day free from responsibilities?
- If your teen struggles to fit in with the popular kids, Can’t Buy Me Love teaches that even lawn mower-riding knights can be cool. Plus, telescopes are definitely worth the investment.
- For the teen hesitant about college applications, Animal House offers a humorous glimpse into Greek life that just might inspire them to get those transcripts sent out.
- If discussing the birds and the bees feels daunting, Dirty Dancing provides a relatable narrative. Sure, Penny had her struggles, but no one puts Baby in a corner, especially not Johnny.
- If you’ve been so busy with your older daughter’s wedding that your younger daughter’s birthday slipped your mind, show her Sixteen Candles. Jake Ryan understands the importance of remembering the little things.
- Should your tween forget to show their parents some respect, Mr. Mom serves as a reminder that parents work hard, whether it’s on Schooner Tuna campaigns or balancing household duties.
- If you’re worried your teen is rushing to grow up, let them watch Big. They’ll discover that adulthood comes with unexpected challenges—not just endless silly string.
- If the thought of teaching your teen to drive makes you anxious, License to Drive might be the hilarious reality check you need.
- If your teen didn’t make the football team, remind them of the inspiring story of Rudy. Sometimes, perseverance is what truly matters.
- If your teen is feeling stressed about graduation and what comes next, St. Elmo’s Fire can help them realize that college is where lifelong friendships begin—even if it includes some romantic sparks.
These films are brimming with life lessons that can help us as parents. By revisiting our favorite ’80s classics, we not only entertain ourselves but also enrich our children’s lives. And hey, don’t worry if you pull out your old jean jacket or your favorite “Frankie Says Relax” T-shirt; it’s all part of the nostalgia.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, I need to assist my daughter with her history homework. She’s delving into Medieval history, and I can’t believe how much she has to study tonight!
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In summary, revisiting ’80s movies not only brings joy but also imparts valuable lessons for parenting during those tricky tween years. So grab some popcorn and enjoy the nostalgia while helping your kids navigate their own challenges.
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