When I welcomed my first child, I aimed for an unachievable level of perfection. I envisioned myself as the ultimate mom to my ideal daughter, but the reality of parenting left me feeling overwhelmed. However, having three children has transformed my perspective in ways that are difficult to articulate. It has liberated me from the trivial concerns that once dominated my thoughts, such as “Is my home tidy enough for guests?” or “Are my children behaving impeccably?” Now, my approach to parenting is as efficient as my diaper bag—free from unnecessary items. I no longer stress about being perfect; instead, I concentrate on appreciating the present moment. Although raising three children can be challenging, it has also allowed me to savor their authentic personalities. Here are some of the delightful aspects of having three kids:
- It’s the maximum number of children you can have without needing to invest in a minivan.
- There’s never such a thing as “leftovers” at mealtime.
- The likelihood that one of them will want to care for me in my old age is quite favorable.
- You truly get your money’s worth from all that pricey baby gear that you may not have needed but felt compelled to acquire.
- People are more understanding when you’re running late to events.
- You have the perfect number of kids to form an impromptu rock band.
- There’s always at least one child eager to snuggle.
- If fortune smiles upon you, you can enjoy the sound of three little giggles harmonizing together.
- There’s always a child available to obscure you in family photos.
- Most of the time, one child isn’t on your list of frustrations.
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