Turning 40 often gets a bad reputation, but let me tell you, it’s not as terrible as some might think. Sure, my knees are a bit creakier, and hangovers seem to stretch on for days, but overall, this decade has its perks. Here are some reasons why being 40 is truly fantastic:
- Knee Socks are My Jam
I proudly rock knee socks with my pajamas, and surprisingly, my partner loves it. Not just a “like” on social media, but a genuine “I dig it” in real life. - My DVR is a Treasure Trove
My DVR is packed with gems like Togetherness and Transparent. Sorry, kiddo, but there’s no room for that NBA game you wanted. It’s my TV, after all! - Home Dinners are the Best
Forget about fancy restaurants. I’d rather chill at a friend’s house, savoring homemade food and sharing countless glasses of wine. The simplicity of it all brings me joy. - Chairs with Backs, Please
I’m not shy about asking for a seat with a backrest anymore. “Sorry, I’ll wait for a real table. You know, back issues!” is my new mantra. - Garnet Hill Catalog Love
Once a source of annoyance, I now flip through the Garnet Hill catalog with delight. Those cozy wool slippers and luxurious robes are now on my wish list—even if I don’t really need them. - Goodbye to Shorts
Let’s be real—shorts might not be your best look anymore. But hey, it’s your call! Just know that I’m here to tell you the truth. - Cherished Friendship
By now, you’ve likely surrounded yourself with friends who matter. You know who to reach out to for support, laughs, or a shoulder to cry on. It’s a beautiful network of love. - Cursing is Back
Oh, the freedom of cursing! Now that the kids are older, I can let loose without the guilt of being the “bad example.” - Rewatching Childhood Classics
Sharing our favorite 80s films with our kids is a blast. Watching their reactions to classics like Ghostbusters brings back so many memories. - Intimacy is Refreshing
At 40, intimacy takes on a new meaning. It’s about connection and enjoyment, even amidst the chaos of life. - Dreamy Celebrities
My taste in celebrities has definitely evolved. I now find myself crushing on actors like Mark Duplass and Jeff Daniels, who bring a certain charm to the screen. - Tears of Joy
I can cry without shame at school performances. Watching kids shine on stage tugs at my heartstrings in the best way. - Weather-Driven Cancellations
Feeling too cold? No problem! I can easily back out of plans without guilt. - Outfit Repeats are Acceptable
Yes, I wore this yesterday, and I’m proud of it. Waste not, want not, right? - Podcasts are All the Rage
Podcasts have become a cultural phenomenon, and I’m all in. They’re not just for hipsters anymore! - New Habits, No Pressure
Trying new things feels less daunting. If a tea hobby fades, I can just laugh and remember it fondly. - Seamless Orders are a Game Changer
I can now order what I want without compromise. He can have his tortilla soup while I enjoy sushi—it’s a win-win. - Cold Weather Fashion
Sure, I’m always chilly, but that means I can rock comfy parkas and oversized hats without a second thought. - Selective Invitations
I don’t have to invite everyone anymore—what a relief! - Still Kind-Hearted
Despite the desire to be selective, I still have a generous spirit, which is a win. - Past Smoking Habits
Those days are long gone, and my lungs are in much better shape. - Ramekin Abundance
I now have enough ramekins to entertain without a hitch. - Self-Awareness
I know myself better than ever, which helps me be a better person. - No Pressure to Finish Every Book
I’ve accepted that I won’t read every book I start, and that’s okay. - Teaching Values
I’m passionate about instilling values like tolerance and equality in my kids. - Stretchy Pants for the Win
Thanks to stretchy fabric, I can wear pants that might be a size too small without discomfort. - Health Awareness
I can rule out a few health issues, which is a relief. - Feet Acceptance
I’ve come to terms with my feet. They’re not perfect, but I love my stylish sandals. - Never Truly Alone
I’ve accepted that privacy is rare, especially in the bathroom! - Acts of Kindness
I’ve likely made an impact on many lives, even if I’ve stumbled along the way. - Savoring Small Joys
Simple pleasures, like a warm cup of coffee or laughter with loved ones, are what life is all about. - Quality Over Quantity
Honestly, 32 reasons are enough to celebrate turning 40. It’s about embracing this stage of life without the need for a lengthy list.
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So, here’s to turning 40—a time to embrace life’s quirks, find joy in the little things, and cherish the friendships that make it all worthwhile.
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