In the journey of a young woman’s life—marked by significant milestones such as the first menstruation, the first bra fitting, and the first romantic encounter—there exists an essential experience that often goes unrecognized: the initial reading of Judy Blume’s Forever…. As a book-loving, somewhat awkward pre-teen, I devoured Blume’s collection, including titles like Superfudge, Blubber, and Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret. Yet, there was one particular book that remained off-limits.
My older sister possessed a well-worn edition of Forever…, featuring a cover image of a girl reflecting on her newfound sexual awareness. “This book is far too mature for you,” she told me, as if she had achieved a level of enlightenment that put her beyond the reach of my youthful curiosity. Naturally, I was compelled to uncover the so-called adult themes in Forever…, so at the tender age of twelve, I stealthily borrowed my sister’s copy and read it, as tradition dictates, with a flashlight under my covers. I returned to the scene where Michael and Kath engage in intimacy nearly every night for a month. Eventually, fearing the consequences of returning the book to my sister, I disposed of it in the cafeteria trash at school.
From Forever…, I gleaned essential lessons about sexuality—such as the importance of using a “sheath” to avoid “VD,” the peculiar habit some individuals have of naming their genitals, and that, as Kath’s mother wisely points out, “you can’t go back to holding hands.” However, nearly all of Blume’s works impart significant insights. In honor of her 77th birthday, let’s revisit some of the profound wisdom she shared.
Iggie’s House
The end of a friendship may feel devastating, but it is not the end of the world, and casual racism can be pervasive in our surroundings.
Blubber
Yes, the classmate next to me is indeed picking his nose and storing the evidence in his desk.
Deenie
There is a specific term for “exploring your private areas.”
Starring Sally J. Freedman As Herself
It’s perfectly fine to be the source of a lice outbreak (I apologize, Camp Evergreen) and that historical figures may have unexpected connections to your life.
Are You There God? It’s Me, Margaret.
Some girls eagerly anticipate their first period, while I was more apprehensive. It’s crucial to understand that menstruation does not signify the absolute end of childhood.
Then Again, Maybe I Won’t
Boys! Erections! Wet dreams! That kid saving his boogers was dealing with all of that?!
Tales of a Fourth Grade Nothing
Not all exuberant younger siblings are as charming as I once thought. Additionally, childhood cuteness is fleeting.
Otherwise Known As Sheila the Great
Girls can be quite unkind to one another (that “slam book” was brutal), yet they also have the capacity to forgive and move on.
It’s Not the End of the World
Consider the title in relation to divorce. This topic was particularly impactful, serving as a reminder that life continues even through significant changes.
In summary, Judy Blume’s writings have provided invaluable insights into the complexities of growing up as a woman, addressing everything from the realities of friendship to the nuances of sexual education. Her novels remain essential reading for anyone navigating the tumultuous waters of adolescence.
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