Dear children, I have no regrets about my decision to work. While many mothers may feel remorseful, I do not share that sentiment.
I’m not sorry that when I leave for work each morning, you don’t shed tears. You look forward to the exciting activities that await you, and I want you to enjoy those experiences, even if I’m not there to witness them.
I’m not sorry that your Nana, your Gigi, and your Pops are some of your closest companions. They play an essential role in your lives each week while I’m at work, providing you with a bond that many children may never know.
I’m not sorry that my job allows you to spend quality time with your fully capable father. Having both parents involved enriches your life and teaches you valuable lessons about teamwork and responsibility.
I’m also not sorry that you’ve formed connections with your other caregivers. The more people who care for you, the more love you learn to give and receive.
I’m not sorry that you witness both your mother and father sharing household responsibilities, such as chores and childcare. This teamwork demonstrates the importance of cooperation in all aspects of life.
I’m not sorry for the limited time we share, as I prioritize the quality of our moments together over sheer quantity. There’s a significant difference between being physically present and being genuinely engaged.
Research indicates that my working will positively impact your future. For instance, you, my daughter, are more likely to pursue advanced education and attain a higher income due to my professional choices. Likewise, you, my son, are more likely to be involved in parenting when it’s your turn.
I’m not sorry that you have access to a reputable school district or that you enjoy a spacious backyard for play. And most importantly, I’m not sorry that I engage in something fulfilling beyond motherhood.
While I have no regrets, I do carry certain worries. I worry that you might envy those whose mothers are able to stay home. I worry about the moments I may miss, such as a soccer game or a band concert, and I worry that you might one day attribute any struggles to the times I allowed you to watch television while I met deadlines.
Despite these concerns, I am profoundly grateful. I appreciate that you see your parents challenging traditional gender roles, which may liberate you from feeling constrained by them in the future. I’m thankful we have family nearby to lend support, as many parents do not have that luxury. Most of all, I am grateful that when I kiss you goodnight after a long day, you respond with a big, sloppy kiss and an “I love you, Mommy.”
My ability to work will never diminish the love we share.
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In summary, I firmly believe that working as a mother brings numerous benefits to both you and me. While there are concerns about the impact of my choices, the advantages far outweigh the worries. Our family thrives on love, support, and the lessons learned through our experiences together.