As a newcomer to suburban life, I’ve gathered valuable insights over the years that can help any mom maintain her sanity in this unique environment. If your suburb had a survival manual, it might look something like this. Use it as a quick reference guide. Remember, as we say in suburban circles, “Let’s navigate this together.”
- Enroll your children in a plethora of sports or extracurricular activities. This ensures that your weekends are completely booked until they reach an age where family outings become undesirable.
- Don’t be surprised if you accidentally enter the wrong minivan or SUV; it’s a common occurrence. To minimize mix-ups, consider decorating your back windshield with fun stickers representing your children’s favorite hobbies.
- When painting your home, you will encounter a limited palette. Expect to choose from one of the 477 shades of beige; any other colors might be met with resistance.
- If your child falls ill with strep throat or hand, foot, and mouth disease, prepare for the entire neighborhood to be informed before you even have a chance to get their prescription. Incidentally, this urgency applies to other types of local gossip!
- As a suburban mom, there’s an expectation to launch a craft business. Your options include hair accessories, jewelry, embellished clothing, or printable items. Anything outside of these categories must go through the local Chamber of Commerce.
- If you have a job, you’ll be expected to purchase handmade goods from local boutiques that celebrate a myriad of occasions, from Ramadan to Flag Day. Your presence at these events is highly encouraged.
- If you find yourself more than a mile away from a grocery store or coffee shop, it’s a sign that you’ve strayed into an undesirable area. Stay calm and retrace your steps back to civilization.
- Joining a gym is a requirement. Get ready to participate in spin classes, reformer workouts, and Zumba sessions that feel like a dance party.
- Be prepared to power wash everything from your driveway to your pet. Suburban living demands cleanliness in all forms.
- Ensure your dog is adorable, as your neighbors will want to stop and pet it. However, be warned: they may also report any late-night barking to the homeowners’ association.
- Take a trip to lululemon or Target to stock up on trendy athletic wear. You should wear these items frequently, even pairing them with Uggs during colder months.
- You will be invited to numerous birthday celebrations for women aged 30 to 50. Arrive early to ensure you sit next to the right people, as seating arrangements can greatly influence your experience.
- Consider reducing intimacy in your life, as discussions about unsatisfactory sex lives tend to come up during social gatherings.
- Save intimate acts for special occasions. In suburban culture, such gestures are generally reserved for birthdays and anniversaries.
- Living in the suburbs often resembles reading celebrity gossip magazines: everything is exaggerated, and you may find yourself scrutinizing others while engaging in light-hearted gossip.
I hope these tips assist you in adjusting to suburban life. Perhaps I’ll see you at the next craft fair—I’ll be the one selling embellished picture frames!
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Summary
This guide provides essential tips for moms adapting to suburban life, from managing children’s activities to navigating social expectations and local culture. Embrace your new lifestyle with humor and creativity as you settle into your community.