Why I Participate in Elections: A Personal Reflection

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In my earlier years, I tended to avoid discussions surrounding politics. My hesitance stemmed from a lack of understanding of the political landscape and feeling unprepared to engage in heated debates on pressing issues. I hadn’t taken the time to explore my political beliefs, and while I could name prominent figures in my chosen party, I struggled to articulate a well-informed stance. As a result, I passively observed election cycles without much engagement. Although I cast my vote during national elections every four years, I found it difficult to even define the role of Congress or the significance of our Capitol leaders.

This perspective shifted dramatically after a tragic event that shook the nation: the Virginia Tech shootings. In April 2007, 32 students lost their lives at the hands of a mentally unstable individual. I, like many others, watched in horror as experts debated gun control, campus safety, and mental health services in the United States. As I reflected on the fresh faces of the victims, I felt an overwhelming sense of despair for a country that seemed so fractured.

As a mother with a son preparing to enter kindergarten, I was consumed with worry about his safety in an educational environment. Who would protect him from potential threats? What mental health resources existed in my community? I realized I was unaware of where local tax dollars were allocated, but I was determined to learn more.

Serendipitously, a local politician organized a pancake breakfast meet-and-greet shortly thereafter, and I decided to attend. I arranged for a babysitter and felt a surge of anxiety as I entered the fire hall. Who was I to question a government representative? What right did I have to disrupt a gathering with my concerns about gun safety and school protection? But I reminded myself: I was a parent seeking to safeguard my children. I was a woman who had come to terms with my apprehensions about discussing social issues. I was a citizen of a country where others had fought for my right to voice my opinions.

As I poured syrup on my pancakes and cream into my coffee at a crowded table, I listened intently, waiting for my opportunity to speak. When it came, I felt a wave of nervousness wash over me, but I stood up and twisted my wedding rings as I surveyed the room filled with ordinary people like myself. I found the courage to ask the politician what actions he would take to ensure my son’s safety following the Virginia Tech tragedy. At that moment, I felt a sense of empowerment.

To his credit, he answered my question honestly, discussing the constraints of funding, bureaucracy, and political differences. While he didn’t provide a comprehensive solution, I felt heard, which was significant. At the end of the breakfast, I was introduced to the local fire chief, who shared the tactical measures in place for local schools. He even showed me the blueprints kept in his trunk and assured me he would do everything possible to protect my son.

I left that breakfast not just full from the meal, but filled with a sense of empowerment. That local politician received my first vote in a local election that fall.

This experience taught me why I vote. It’s not about confrontation or tearing down others’ beliefs. I vote because I want to regain a sense of control in a chaotic political environment. When I hear disheartening political rhetoric, I remind myself that I have the ability to voice my opinion through my vote. I participate in elections because the people who represent me are often from the same communities I frequent. At its core, voting is about the collective voice of the people, as enshrined in the Constitution.

I vote because I am no longer that timid person I once was. I vote because not long ago, women fought for the right to be heard at the polls. I vote because I believe in my principles and refuse to shy away from political discussions. I feel empowered when I step into that voting booth, knowing my voice counts.

So, whatever it takes—be it arranging childcare, bringing your children, or taking time from your workday—make sure to VOTE this November.

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In summary, participating in elections is a powerful way to assert your voice and ensure your concerns are acknowledged. Every vote matters, and being engaged in the political process is crucial for the future of our communities.

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