As I hurried up the escalator, taking two steps at a time, my heart raced with anticipation. My daughter’s plane was set to arrive any moment, marking her first summer at sleepaway camp. For the past two weeks, I had been eagerly checking the mailbox for updates about her camp experience—her bunkmates, the food, and all the exciting activities she was engaged in. Unfortunately, my mailbox was primarily filled with furniture catalogs, bills, and the occasional local real estate flyer. The few notes I received from her were brief: “I like my counselors. We went swimming. I have hot chocolate for breakfast every day.”
Perhaps the brevity of her letters indicated she was too busy enjoying herself to write more detailed accounts. Or maybe it suggested she wasn’t having a great time and preferred not to share that with me.
When I finally spotted her, I waved enthusiastically and rushed to envelop her in a warm hug. “I missed you!” I exclaimed. “How was camp?”
“I want to go for the whole month next year,” she replied, her embrace slightly less enthusiastic than mine. There was no reciprocation of my sentiment. No tears of joy at our reunion.
As I stepped back and examined her closely, I noticed the subtle changes: highlights in her chestnut hair, a radiant glow on her cheeks, and she seemed to have grown half an inch. The 9½-year-old before me appeared composed, confident, and genuinely happy—a stark contrast to the somewhat clingy and emotional child I had sent off two weeks prior. It struck me that she had just experienced a significant period of independence, one that was entirely hers. As I learned more about her camp experience and observed her transformation throughout the summer, I realized this independence was invaluable.
The Decision to Enroll
Enrolling children in sleepaway camp is no small decision. It evokes emotional responses from both parents and children alike. Being away from home for an extended period can be daunting. Parents must navigate the challenge of selecting the right camp for their child, alongside considering the financial implications, which can sometimes rival a lavish family vacation depending on the duration of the stay. However, the benefits of providing your child with a unique, individualized experience are significant.
For my daughter, the camp environment allows her to be herself, free from the roles of being a younger or older sister. It grants her the opportunity to explore her interests, opinions, and friendships without the influence of siblings or parents. Being placed in a cabin with 11 unfamiliar girls compelled her to learn how to navigate social dynamics, fostering her ability to connect and form friendships with those she may not initially have much in common with. While counselors are available to assist when needed, campers are generally encouraged to resolve conflicts independently, a refreshing shift from the adult mediation often present in our home. My daughters have returned from camp with enhanced self-esteem, improved social skills, and a willingness to embrace new challenges, even if it means facing initial failures. These are essential life skills that are actively cultivated in the camp environment.
Benefits for Parents
The advantages of sleepaway camp extend beyond the children; it also offers a much-needed respite for parents. After my older daughters leave for camp, the atmosphere at home becomes quieter, and my daily routine becomes more relaxed. This allows me to devote quality one-on-one time to my youngest child. Amidst my work-from-home schedule, I find time to read, write, and enjoy leisurely walks. The slower pace rejuvenates me, enabling me to cherish motherhood more than I do during our often hectic daily lives.
This calmer environment also benefits my marriage. With fewer children at home, my husband and I reconnect, enjoying uninterrupted conversations or simply relishing the tranquility of an emptier house. We can settle in for the evening without the usual rush of bedtime routines.
Looking Ahead
As my children and I prepare for this year’s camp packing, excitement fills the air. They are eager to explore the campgrounds with friends, sneak midnight snacks, spend ample time outdoors, and embrace their carefree spirits. For me, this period away from my kids allows for personal rejuvenation, quality time with my husband, and a slower pace of life. All in all, it’s a win-win situation.
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Summary
Sleepaway camp provides children an opportunity for personal growth, independence, and social skill development while offering parents a much-needed break. The experience fosters self-confidence and resilience in children, allowing them to explore their interests away from family dynamics. Furthermore, the time apart can strengthen familial relationships and provide parents with a chance to recharge.