Navigating pregnancy is no walk in the park. Your body goes through a whirlwind of changes that can leave you feeling less than glamorous and utterly drained. Amidst the chaos, you might wonder how your partner still wants to be intimate with you.
While some women embrace the idea of sex during pregnancy, not everyone shares that enthusiasm. Enter Sarah Jennings, an Australian blogger and mom who is currently expecting her fourth child. In her recent Facebook post, she humorously explores the complexities of intimacy while pregnant, especially in the later stages. If you’ve ever felt this way, you’re not alone.
“Pregnant intimacy—let’s not sugarcoat it; we’re talking about pregnant sex,” she writes. “Honestly, you’re lucky if I’m even interested. Just get it done and bring me some snacks afterward.”
Sarah acknowledges that while some women seem to flourish during pregnancy and enjoy intimate moments with their partners, she’s not one of them. Reflecting on her experience, she notes that the brief period of feeling somewhat normal—when nausea has subsided and you’re not yet the size of a whale—has long passed. “At 30 weeks, I’m definitely past that point.”
“We try our best, I swear! I promised myself I would embrace pregnancy differently this time. I swore I’d be that radiant, sexy goddess,” she admits with a laugh. Spoiler alert: that didn’t quite pan out. At this stage, she describes herself as “beached whale AF,” sticky, and wearing panty liners—definitely not for the reasons one might hope.
Her body is in a state of disarray: a stretching belly, sore breasts, and a serious lack of grooming. Yet, her husband continues to call her beautiful, which leaves her bewildered. “What’s wrong with this guy? I’m leaking, I stink, I’m hairy, and I probably sweat more than he does on a hot summer day. But he still finds me attractive,” she muses.
It’s a common sentiment among women in similar situations, and the mystery of why any man would be interested during late pregnancy is often discussed among friends. Sarah wonders if her partner is simply one of those guys who are into pregnant women, or perhaps he’s just an incredibly caring partner, even if he’s a bit of a fibber. “Regardless, I’m keeping him around,” she concludes with a smile.
To all the partners who remind us that we’re loved—even when we don’t feel beautiful—thank you from our exhausted hearts. For more insights on pregnancy and the journey of motherhood, check out this engaging blog post. And if you’re considering home insemination, be sure to visit Make A Mom for reliable at-home insemination kits. Additionally, WebMD offers excellent resources on pregnancy and reproductive health.
In summary, while pregnant intimacy can be a challenging topic, it is also filled with relatable humor and love. Embracing the chaos of pregnancy with laughter and support from partners can make all the difference.