Women have endured enough from the toxic realities of rape culture. From a young age, we are conditioned to view our bodies through the lenses of male approval: Is this dress too revealing? We learn to second-guess ourselves: Am I being too aloof? Did I have one drink too many? We’re often blamed for being in the wrong place at the wrong time, and we’re told to remain quiet and compliant.
Then there are the heart-wrenching stories, like that of Mia Roberts, who was out for a run in her neighborhood park. Her attacker lay in wait, hidden away in a public restroom, ready to strike. But Mia, armed with skills from her self-defense training, turned the tables on her assailant, fighting back fiercely and escaping what could have been a devastating assault.
Mia’s story ignited a fire within me. It made my blood boil. I felt an overwhelming rage that something as simple as a jog could turn deadly. The reality is, we are never truly safe, and that’s a disheartening truth.
Well, I refuse to live in fear any longer. I’m demanding that women have the right to feel safe in their own skin. Since no one seems to be stepping up to the plate, I’m taking matters into my own hands, just like the unstoppable Mia Roberts.
I’m going to find a class that equips me with the skills to defend myself—be it krav maga, kickboxing, karate, or Brazilian jiu-jitsu. I’ll be there, ready to learn how to deliver a powerful blow to anyone who dares come at me.
I will practice looking strangers in the eye, unflinching and fearless. My gaze will convey strength and assertiveness, making it clear that harassment won’t be tolerated. I’ll let my body language scream, “What do you want?” And my middle finger will communicate, “Not today, buddy.”
I’ll harness the strength of my voice to assertively say “no!” I won’t shy away from calling out unwanted attention or inappropriate behavior. If a male colleague thinks it’s acceptable to invade my personal space or touch me inappropriately, I’ll take it to HR without hesitation.
If someone in a coffee shop won’t accept my “I’m married” as an answer, I’ll demand to speak to the manager. I refuse to let anyone make me feel uncomfortable or unsafe in any situation.
I will learn to literally fight back, not just through physical training, but by combining my newfound confidence with my voice. I want to evolve into a version of myself that stands tall against harassment, abuse, and manipulation.
Surrounding myself with like-minded women, we will uplift and protect each other. Together, we will reject the limitations placed on us by a patriarchal society.
I envision a future where we don’t have to rally against figures like Brock Turner because they will no longer exist. A reality where we can jog freely without the fear of violence lurking around the corner. A world where we can pursue our careers without the threat of harassment hanging over our heads.
So don’t even think about testing me. As Mia Roberts once said, “Not today, jerk.” I will stand my ground and fight back.
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In summary, it’s time for us to reclaim our safety and power. By arming ourselves with knowledge and skills, we can create a supportive community that refuses to accept the status quo. Together, we can forge a future where women are respected and safe.