Dear Best Friend,
Recently, while sifting through old pictures, I stumbled upon some snapshots of our younger selves. Those images made me reflect on the vibrant, adventurous spirits we once were. We were full of dreams and a carefree attitude, embodying the essence of youth. Yet, even in our wildest days, we had an unspoken agreement: you were my person, and I was yours. It was as simple as that.
Do you remember back in the day when we would cozy up to watch Grey’s Anatomy? When Christina told Meredith that she was her person, it resonated with so many of us. It was a moment that brought tears and hugs among friends because it captured the bond we all long for.
As time has passed, life has thrown its fair share of challenges our way—making things more complex, hectic, and often overwhelming. But through it all, one truth remains: you are still my person. You always have been, and you always will be.
In recent times, our collection of photos together has dwindled. Our friendship now often exists in a flurry of text messages, which portray a different kind of connection. They reveal that we can spend hours chatting, pouring our hearts out through our screens, yet there are also long stretches where silence reigns. Messages filled with “love you” and “miss you,” alongside nostalgic “remember when…” texts, fill our chats. And yes, every now and then, there’s that one expletive-filled text capturing a whirlwind of emotions. Remember those hilarious memes about how we can’t quite recall which one of us is the true troublemaker? (Spoiler alert: it’s you!)
These messages tell a lot about our friendship, just like our old photos do. They convey the undeniable love and longing we feel for one another, even when life gets in the way. Despite the busyness that often separates us, we know that when life calms down, we can seamlessly reconnect as if no time has passed.
Planning a weekend getaway takes an astonishing 113 texts, and organizing a lunch or a pedicure involves countless exchanges. Yet, our friendship is the very essence of our lives.
Despite the numerous messages and emails, they don’t capture everything. They don’t reveal how, at times, I lie awake at night, reminiscing about simpler days when girl talk was as easy as a stroll down the hall or a quick meet-up. I miss you more than words can express, and sometimes I worry about what time and distance may do to our bond. It’s a concern that lingers—will we always be each other’s person?
We have both evolved, navigating through life’s challenges—aging bodies and fuller schedules—but the foundation of our friendship remains unchanged. Love, respect, and understanding still bind us. We still share beauty tips and fashion advice, but our conversations have shifted to encompass deeper topics like health issues, mental well-being, and family responsibilities.
Our disagreements are less frequent, and when we do argue, it doesn’t escalate into nagging. We still enjoy those carefree moments together, albeit with a few more mimosas at brunch instead of late-night escapades. We’ve got each other’s backs, but it’s a different kind of support now—one that includes navigating chemotherapy treatments, facing infertility challenges, and managing the chaos of parenthood.
At one point, we thought being lifelong friends meant standing by each other at our weddings and growing old together, laughing over martinis and wearing purple hats in our gray hair. We envisioned it would be effortless and natural. However, we learned that maintaining a lasting friendship requires dedication, effort, and a healthy dose of grace and forgiveness.
Yet, somehow, we’ve managed to work through it all. We carve out time for one another, even if it’s not as much as we’d like. We put in the effort because our friendship is worth it. We communicate through calls, texts, and emails, and we meet up whenever possible, always longing for more time together. You’re on my mind constantly.
No matter how much life changes, you will always be my person.
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In summary, life may change the circumstances of our friendship, but the bond we share remains steadfast and true. Through all the ups and downs, we’ve learned that true friendship can withstand the test of time, distance, and life’s inevitable chaos.