Recently, I bumped into an old friend, Lisa, who I hadn’t seen since she welcomed her first child about a year ago. After exchanging the usual pleasantries — “How’s the baby?” and “Are you getting any sleep?” — she eagerly pulled out her phone to share a treasure trove of photos. With a radiant smile, she scrolled through countless images, recounting the highlights of her baby’s first year with captivating detail, supported by a wealth of photographic memories.
Instead of feeling annoyed or impatient, I realized I was overwhelmed with envy. It wasn’t about longing for another baby or reminiscing about my own sleepless nights; it was the incredible visual diary she had created of her daughter’s early life, something I found myself lacking.
Reflecting on my own experiences, I felt a pang of nostalgia for my firstborn, who is now off at college. I grabbed his baby book, and within minutes, I had revisited his entire first year — which contained only about 50 pictures. Back then, I used an old Kodak camera with limited film, making each shot count. My friend, on the other hand, had an impressive collection of over 150 photos capturing her daughter’s first taste of solid food, with so many expressions and moments documented!
And let’s not even discuss the countless videos she had taken! My own collection included just a handful of recorded events, as setting up that bulky camcorder was often the last thing on my mind. Nowadays, the convenience of snapping a photo or recording a video is literally at your fingertips. It’s like being both a mother and a documentary filmmaker all in one! What a remarkable gift of technology you’ve been given!
As an older mom, I often share advice with younger mothers. We’ve traveled the winding paths of motherhood and gained insights through both joyful and challenging experiences. Instead of saying, “It goes by so fast; enjoy every moment,” I now tell them, “You can never have too many pictures and videos. Capture them every day! While it’s important to savor the moment, don’t hesitate to document it, because memories fade quickly. Those photos? They last forever.”
No longer do we have to worry about losing precious memories in a house fire; we can thank the cloud for preserving our digital treasures. So go ahead and fill up your children’s cloud storage. One day, they’ll be grateful for the memories you’ve captured.
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Summary
Documenting your child’s early moments through photos and videos is invaluable. Embrace modern technology to create lasting memories, as they will serve as cherished reminders of those fleeting years.