In a powerful message perfect for the start of a new year, actor and filmmaker Kevin Harris has shared a poignant reminder: “You are the author of your own journey.” Recently, he revisited an old note that has served as a source of motivation throughout his life.
The story goes back to 1990 when Kevin faced a tough breakup. His ex-girlfriend’s mother, aware of his aspirations to become a writer, handed him a note under the pretense of encouragement. The note read, “Kevin Harris will never become a successful writer. He lacks the determination. I wish him luck.” Signed and dated, it felt like a declaration of his future, a negative prophecy he was determined to defy.
Instead of discarding the note, Kevin chose to keep it. He pinned it to his desk and even placed it in a baseball card frame. “It was crucial to hold onto it – not because I wanted that woman to eat her words someday,” he remarked. “The letter reminded me that NOBODY writes my story but me.”
It’s easy to lose sight of this truth. Many influences in our lives can subtly or overtly steer us away from our dreams. While most might not encounter a direct challenge like Kevin did, it’s common to feel the weight of others’ expectations. This is a great reminder that the judgments others place on us – those ideas about who we are or what we can achieve – simply don’t matter.
“Instead of accepting the adult’s limited view of my potential, I used that note as fuel,” Kevin reflected. “And eventually, I penned the screenplay that transformed my life.” That screenplay was for Clerks, a groundbreaking indie film that launched his career and led to other successes like Mallrats, Chasing Amy, and Jay and Silent Bob Strike Back.
So, as we step into this new year, remember: you are the one who writes your own story. This year, embrace your narrative and don’t let anyone else dictate your future. It’s not about vengeance or proving others wrong; it’s about recognizing that you are the director, producer, and star of your life. No one can take that away from you.
“Happy New Year, everyone! Let’s show the world just how wrong those doubters can be…”
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Summary
Kevin Harris shares an inspiring message about taking control of your life narrative, using his past experiences to encourage others to follow their dreams, regardless of outside opinions.