Once upon a time, I was all about New Year’s resolutions. Fast forward to today, and honestly? They feel more like a chore than a chance to reflect and improve. Who needs the added stress of setting goals like “Lose those stubborn 10 pounds” or “Work out three times a week”? Let’s be real—these often lead to disappointment and, in my case, a little comfort eating to ease the guilt.
Over the past year, I’ve focused on embracing my true self. It all started when I was overwhelmed during my child’s first year, which prompted me to seek a more authentic life. I’ve made it a priority to let go of unnecessary guilt over trivial matters. When those pesky feelings of mom guilt strike, I reach out to friends or family for a little reassurance. After all, we all need a little support sometimes!
Being true to myself has also meant recognizing that every mother is on her own journey. I’ve learned to stop casting judgment. Sure, my daughter can be an angel in public, patiently waiting in line, but she also engages in some interesting conversations with our pets, showcasing her imagination. And while she can be a great traveler, she’s not shy about devouring butter packets at restaurants, and you know what? I order them for her!
So, I won’t side-eye another mom whose child isn’t wearing a hat during winter. Who knows what battles she faced just to get her kid dressed? As Kermit the Frog wisely put it, “It’s none of my business.”
For all the moms out there looking for a New Year’s resolution that’s achievable, I have a suggestion: Be true to yourself and stop throwing shade at fellow mothers. Let’s ditch the judgmental mindset, because honestly, it’s so last decade and never looked good on anyone.
Low-Effort Resolutions for a Kinder Year
To make things even easier, here are a few low-effort resolutions that can give you a sense of accomplishment:
- When you find yourself mindlessly scrolling through social media, take a moment to check your email inbox. Instead of deleting everything, go ahead and unsubscribe from those newsletters you never read. It’s a quick win that feels surprisingly satisfying.
- Discard your child’s artwork every night while they sleep. (Hey, live your best life, right? No judgments here!)
- Quit making snide comments about other mothers and women in general. It’s so simple; all it takes is a bit of mindfulness.
And that’s it! Simple, isn’t it? Cheers to a New Year filled with kindness and self-acceptance!
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Summary
In this article, the author reflects on the decision to abandon the habit of mom-shaming and embrace a more authentic life. By letting go of guilt and judgment, she encourages fellow mothers to focus on self-acceptance and kindness towards others. Simple resolutions are suggested to foster a more supportive community among moms.