The #NoMakeup movement is gaining traction, with women embracing their natural beauty on social media, largely inspired by the likes of Ava Green and her bold stance. Even celebrities like Julia Roberts have been seen showcasing their bare faces at high-profile events. While these developments are commendable, I can’t help but echo the sentiments of comedian Tina Fey: “Good for her! Not for me.”
I am a firm believer in the power of makeup. I rock bold red lips, perfectly sculpted brows, and a full face of glam every day. This is how I express myself, and it’s not a commentary on anyone else’s choices. Let’s be clear: a woman’s choice to wear or forego makeup says nothing about you or your worth. My personal plea to the beauty community? Let’s ditch the “shoulds.”
If Ava Green or your friend Zoe feels confident without makeup, that’s fantastic. But if I choose to adorn my face like others choose their outfits, it doesn’t make me disingenuous. When I see my makeup-free friend, my reaction isn’t a judgment on her appearance; it’s simply, “Yay! I get to spend time with a friend!”
I’ve done my homework on feminism: I’ve read books, completed a degree in women’s studies, and even penned a cringe-worthy poem about being a feminist who enjoys makeup. But here’s the truth: My identity isn’t trapped beneath layers of foundation. Every time I apply my favorite lipstick, I don’t view myself negatively.
Ava Green wrote in a recent article, “I don’t want to hide my face, my thoughts, or my struggles.” Who wouldn’t appreciate that level of honesty? I totally get it, yet my journey is different. I’ve spent nearly two decades perfecting my brow game. Without them, I might as well be a cartoon character.
Is this self-deprecation? No, it’s self-honesty. I have one life to live, and if I’m going to channel the Addams Family, I’d rather be Morticia than a background character.
In my younger years, I altered my appearance to appease a partner who didn’t appreciate my look. That was a mistake; we’ve grown since then, and now we respect each other enough to understand that our choices are personal. After a particularly cringe-worthy family photo shoot years ago, I vowed to embrace my true self, and I’ve never looked back.
Wearing makeup isn’t about escaping reality or conforming to societal pressures; it’s about choosing what makes me feel good. I want fierce brows and striking red lips, not to fit a mold, but to express my identity.
It’s a misleading assumption that makeup equals a lack of freedom, while a bare face signifies liberation. Women are complex beings with diverse desires and expressions that defy simplistic labels. The world often tries to pit us against each other, but why should we accept those limitations?
If you feel empowered with or without makeup, own your choice! For more insights on personal empowerment and parenting, check out this blog post on Cervical Insemination.
In summary, whether you choose to wear makeup or go natural, the key is to embrace your individuality. Life is too short to fit into someone else’s box; be true to yourself!
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