I grew up in a quaint farming village in Wisconsin, where life revolved around two stoplights and a tight-knit community of just 5,000 people. Everyone knew everyone, and let’s just say, sometimes it felt like too much. Eager to explore the world, I left for college in Madison, then spent years in Chicago before ultimately settling in—surprise!—the suburbs.
Often critiqued for their uniform homes and seemingly bland neighborhoods, the suburbs have been given a bad reputation. However, after living in a variety of settings—from tiny towns to bustling cities—I can assure you that suburbia has its perks. Yes, there are challenges, but that’s true everywhere. Here are seven reasons why living in the suburbs isn’t so bad after all:
1. Kids Enjoy a Carefree Childhood
In nice weather, my children walk a good three-quarters of a mile to school with a bunch of neighborhood friends. They roam through backyards until dinner time or dusk calls them home. Just like we did as kids, suburban parents can let their children play outside, get a few scrapes, and drink from the garden hose while we relax inside with our LaCroix.
2. Parking Galore
One of the best parts of suburban life? Parking. No more searching endlessly for a spot or squeezing into tight spaces. Whether it’s the grocery store or the local park, your minivan will always have a home.
3. The Best of Both Worlds
The suburbs offer a delightful blend of urban and rural life. Think of it as the mullet of living arrangements—business in the front (city amenities) and party in the back (nature and space). You get the best of both worlds in one place!
4. Occasional Urban Adventures
Remember when life was all about exploring and trying new things? Those days may seem behind us, but on rare occasions, we can become urban explorers once more. A quick drive into the city allows us to indulge in nostalgia, whether it’s visiting a museum or grabbing dinner at a trendy restaurant. And when the night ends, we can return to our suburbs and embrace our cozy, lived-in lives.
5. Chain Restaurants Galore
Yes, the suburbs are home to many chain restaurants, and while they may not be known for their culinary masterpieces, sometimes, there’s nothing better than indulging in a big slice of cheesecake or a towering plate of pasta after a long day. Mediocrity has its charm, especially when it’s accompanied by a fruity drink with an umbrella!
6. A Supportive Community
In suburbia, neighbors often become extended family. Whether you need someone to feed your pets, collect your mail, or even jump-start your car after a forgotten interior light, there’s likely a neighbor nearby ready to lend a hand.
7. Quality Public Schools
Many suburbs boast excellent public schools filled with dedicated teachers and ample resources, without the hefty cost of private education. This lets us focus on what really matters—like navigating the carpool line and packing snacks for soccer practice.
Admittedly, I may fit the stereotype of suburban life—yoga pants, a dented minivan, and the occasional dinner at a chain restaurant. But you know what? I embrace it. Home is where the heart is, and happiness is all about easy parking, delicious cheesy garlic biscuits, and accepting that this is life—but in all its cliché glory, I actually (mostly) love it.
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In summary, while the suburbs might be unfairly judged, they offer a unique lifestyle that many families cherish. From supportive neighbors to great schools, the suburban experience is indeed rewarding.
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