Oh, fellow mama, I can hear your inner dialogue right now. You’re being hard on yourself—second-guessing your choices, and feeling overwhelmed with guilt. You’re thinking, “I’m a terrible mom,” “I’m messing everything up,” or “I’m just not cut out for this.”
Maybe today you lost your cool and raised your voice at your daughter. Perhaps you had a moment of frustration and spanked your son. Maybe you let the TV play all afternoon just so you could catch a break—whether it was to cook, clean, work, or simply breathe. You might have even resorted to giving your little one a haphazard dinner of hot dogs and ketchup alongside a handful of cereal.
I know, it feels like you’re failing.
But here’s the truth: If you were genuinely a bad mom, you wouldn’t care. You wouldn’t fret about healthy eating or feel the weight of wanting to keep your child entertained and educated. You wouldn’t be bothered by the thought that your words might hurt them. You wouldn’t find yourself in tears while your child plays happily in their room. You wouldn’t let guilt gnaw at you, torment you, or consume your thoughts.
You wouldn’t apologize. You wouldn’t experience remorse.
When you take a moment to really think about it, your feelings of guilt and concern show just how much love you have for your child. They reflect your deep desire to do right by them.
So, the next time you’re feeling down on yourself, remember that a few chicken nuggets or an afternoon of cartoons won’t ruin your child. You may not always be proud of your actions; we all make mistakes. But these moments can be valuable lessons—opportunities for growth for both you and your child. They can strengthen your bond and make you a better woman, partner, friend, and, yes, mother.
You are enough. You are doing enough. And no matter your “failures,” you are a good mom. A truly great mom.
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Summary
Motherhood can be filled with moments of self-doubt and guilt. However, it’s essential to recognize that feeling overwhelmed often reflects your love and concern for your child. Mistakes are part of the journey, and they can serve as valuable lessons, helping you grow as a parent. Remember, you are enough, and you are doing a great job.
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