You know you’re one of the seasoned moms when you’ve been navigating the school scene longer than some of the younger mothers have been on this planet. You catch yourself reminiscing, saying things like, “Back in my day, I’d check my baby’s fever by slapping my forehead against theirs—none of these fancy ear thermometers for me!” You find yourself sharing stories of counting kicks, testing milk temperatures on your wrist, and actually using a mobile phone for calls—only to be met with eye rolls and puzzled looks. You think, “Oh no, I just revealed my age!”
Older moms often embrace traditional parenting methods that younger moms might view as outdated, filing us under “O” for “outmoded.” They might treat us like that dusty old library book that’s past its prime and lost its appeal. But don’t be so quick to disregard the older mom at school; she might just be the best friend you never knew you needed. After all, it’s the older moms who cultivate an “I don’t give a damn” mindset when faced with the judgmental stares from other moms. Here are a few reasons why older moms make the best friends:
- We don’t care whether you had a natural birth or a C-section; we all know kids ask the weirdest questions in public restrooms, like “Why is your belly hairy?”
- We don’t care if you breastfed or bottle-fed; kids are bizarre regardless of how you fed them. You’ll still find yourself explaining why “dirt, grass, and sand” aren’t meant for snacking.
- Diapers? Cloth or disposable? We really don’t care. Your child will still declare an urgent need to go potty five minutes after leaving home, just like ours did.
- Sleep methods? Co-sleeping, controlled crying, or no sleep at all? Honestly, we’re all up at 5 a.m. on weekends, answering demands for Frozen or Finding Dory, just like you will be.
- Whether you do spoon-led or baby-led weaning? We don’t care! Kids will eat what they want, which is usually chicken nuggets for every meal.
- Sugary treats or juice? Who cares? Your kid will still try to lick the public restroom floor while you yell “NO!” just like ours did.
- If your 5-year-old is still in diapers, we don’t judge. Trust me, you’ll find yourself yelling, “Don’t open that door!” while trying to pull your pants up in Target, just like we did.
- If your house currently looks like a tornado hit it, that’s okay. In a few years, your child might become a teenager who won’t even want to be seen with you.
- Your kid’s achievements? Who cares if they can walk or talk at 11 months? When they become teens, you’ll be lucky to be their Facebook friend.
- And if you didn’t shower or wear a bra today? You’re not alone; we’ve been there too, and we know we’ll be there tomorrow.
So, the next time you spot an older mom at school, don’t hesitate to say hello. She may share tales of how she survived the parenting journey without the latest gadgets, but she won’t judge you. She understands that parenting can be chaotic and messy, and she’s there to lend a hand—or a bottle of wine—when needed.
Older moms don’t judge; they empathize. They know what truly matters is that our children grow up to love us and want to call us when we’re old and gray, just to say, “I love you, Mom.” That’s the kind of stuff worth worrying about.
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Summary
Older moms bring a unique perspective and an “I don’t care” attitude that can make them incredible friends. With no room for judgment, they understand the chaos of parenting and prioritize the love shared with their children. Whether you’re navigating school events or daily challenges, connecting with an older mom may just provide the support and understanding you need.
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