Last Friday was one of those challenging days that every mom knows all too well. My home looked like a tornado hit it, the kids were bickering louder than ever, my partner was in no better mood, and I was just about at my breaking point. So, like any seasoned mom would do in such a scenario, I reached out to my trusty mom friend, Jenna. We shared a glass (or two) of wine over the phone, and by the end of our chat, I was laughing so hard my sides ached, and I felt buoyed by her support. A true mom friend for life is a treasure worth seeking, and when you find her, it’s unmistakable. Here are ten signs you’ve hit the jackpot:
- She’s the first to let you know if you’ve got spinach in your teeth, a rogue hair sticking out, or if those skinny jeans are not doing you any favors. In short, she helps you avoid embarrassing moments in public.
- You can show her anything, whether it’s an odd rash or that pesky hair growth that appeared overnight. She won’t bat an eye; instead, she’ll probably share her own experiences or help you find a solution together.
- She understands that box wine, coffee, yoga pants, and chocolate aren’t just clichés—they’re essentials for survival. And she’ll happily show up at your doorstep with these lifelines just to lift your spirits.
- If your child is acting out, she won’t sugarcoat it. She’ll tell you straight up, and she’ll respect your parenting style without stepping on your toes when it comes to discipline.
- She values your relationship and knows that your significant other is off-limits for joking or gossiping.
- She’s your partner in crime, always ready to suggest a day filled with mimosas, binge-watching your favorite shows, and ordering takeout.
- When life gets tough, she’ll be there to hold your hair back if needed. She’ll lend a sympathetic ear and offer comfort, embodying what true friendship looks like.
- Instead of judging your parenting choices, she’s your biggest supporter, whether you’re breastfeeding in public or letting your child get their ears pierced.
- Should anyone dare to judge your parenting, she’ll be right there standing up for you, ready to listen and offer backup.
- When life throws you curveballs—like losing a job, coping with illness, or facing tough times—your mom friend will show up, casserole in hand, ready to support you however she can. That’s what real love is: showing up.
A friendship like this doesn’t require daily phone calls or constant check-ins. It simply needs two people who understand each other and are there for one another through thick and thin. It’s like a marriage, but often even better.
Now, it’s time for me to return the love Jenna has shown me. I think I’ll swing by a bakery and surprise her with some treats later.
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In summary, having a mom friend who embodies these qualities can make motherhood a bit more bearable and a lot more joyful. So cherish her when you find her!
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