As summer fades into the background and September rolls in, I can’t help but feel a wave of excitement wash over me. It’s that time of year again! Time to stock up on essentials for the kids—underwear, socks, and those trusty No. 2 pencils. Inside, I’m doing a little happy jig because I know what September brings: a chance for fresh beginnings.
With the chaos of “Summer Mom Camp” behind me, I envision the productivity that awaits. I plan to tackle the clutter in my kitchen cabinets, finally organize that mountain of paperwork on my desk, and create beautiful photo books from the last five years’ worth of snapshots. I dream of getting back in shape, clearing out my minivan, and even crafting a quilt from my kids’ old T-shirts. I’ll volunteer at school, sign up to be a substitute teacher, and lend a hand at the local soup kitchen. I will be—prepare yourselves—Super Mom!
Part of this ambitious planning stems from my inner feminist, who sometimes cringes at the idea of being a stay-at-home mom (SAHM). She had no clue what life would throw her way, and I’m here to prove her wrong. I picture endless hours of time at my disposal, just waiting to be filled with meaningful activities. Maybe I’ll even write that novel I’ve always dreamed about!
But then reality sets in. Between preparing meals, juggling laundry loads, running errands, and driving kids around, I blink and suddenly it’s already time to pick them up from school. Before I know it, October arrives, and I’m left feeling disappointed that my grand plans have gone unfulfilled.
September feels like a fresh start, akin to New Year’s Day for parents, educators, and kids alike. Each year, I set lofty goals—last year, for instance, I aimed to run a marathon, write a book, and declutter every closet in the house. Twelve months later, I’ve only managed to get to three closets, and they’re already back to their messy selves. No marathon medals adorn my walls, and not a single book bears my name.
So here’s my advice: Let it go.
You don’t need to check every box on an ambitious to-do list. There won’t be enough time for books, marathons, and volunteering—not if you’re also managing a household. Being a SAHM is a full-time job in itself, and it’s perfectly acceptable to acknowledge that.
Before you jump into crafting your September resolutions, consider these more realistic ones:
- Take a deep breath. You’ve earned it.
- Acknowledge your accomplishments, no matter how small. Each load of laundry and every dinner cooked counts.
- Carve out a moment for yourself—maybe your soul is hiding next to the washing machine.
- Remind yourself that the “you” from the past had no idea what was ahead.
- Exercise patience. This phase of raising kids will pass, and you’ll have plenty of time for other pursuits later.
- Know that you are enough, just as you are.
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In summary, September is a time for reflection and realistic goal-setting. Embrace the journey of motherhood, celebrate the small victories, and remember that you’re doing an amazing job just by being you.
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