If you’ve tuned into the Bravo scripted comedy Odd Mom Out, you likely find yourself wishing Jenna Marks could be your mom best friend. Not only is she the series’ star, but she also brought it to life by transforming her personal experiences with Upper East Side parenting into laugh-out-loud entertainment for all of us.
Recently, Jenna’s new book, Sprinkle Glitter on My Grave: Observations, Rants, and Other Uplifting Thoughts About Life, hit the shelves. We had the pleasure of sitting down with her to discuss parenting advice, the perks of being in your forties, and how to cleverly use your kids as an excuse for social obligations.
Everyone could use a brutally honest friend—if only to shift the focus off our own parenting missteps, right?
So, what are the positives of being around 40?
Jenna: You genuinely care a lot less about others’ opinions. Once you grasp your own mortality, you start to appreciate each day much more. Plus, you develop a strong sense of self that helps you navigate life with a sharper instinct.
What advice would you offer someone expecting their third child?
Jenna: Prepare yourself and definitely invest in help. I used to think I could manage everything alone, but it would have driven me to the brink without assistance. And remember, it gets even more chaotic, so prioritize alone time with your partner.
Balancing work and family is an uphill battle. Any tips to keep both afloat?
Jenna: Schedule weekends away as a couple once or twice a year to rekindle the spark from before kids—dinner dates aren’t enough! Also, small gestures, like surprise notes or gifts for no reason, can really keep the connection alive.
What was your last “scary mom moment”?
Jenna: Just five minutes ago! I found myself yelling at my kids to stop arguing.
When was the last time you used your child as an excuse to bow out of something?
Jenna: Just last night! That’s one of the perks of being in my forties. I simply say I’m home with the kids while I sneak out another night.
Have you ever been the couple that gets dropped from a social gathering?
Jenna: Absolutely. There have been occasions where our outspoken views on politics led to us being uninvited from events—usually a blessing in disguise because I often complained about those outings on the way home.
What’s the least amount of sleep you can manage?
Jenna: Eight hours is my bare minimum.
What’s the worst and best part about raising kids in NYC?
Jenna: The worst? The excess—kids discussing private jets, multiple homes, and extravagant displays of wealth. The best? If you treat NYC like a third parent and explore all five boroughs, your kids will grow up worldly and inspired.
Lice or a stomach bug—which would you prefer?
Jenna: Lice for sure. It’s annoying, but I’d take it over the misery of barf and diarrhea any day.
How do you react when your kids declare they hate you?
Jenna: I just brush it off and later, when they express their love, I quip, “Oh, I thought you just said you hated me?” They usually apologize and give me a hug.
If you’re interested in Jenna’s book, or if you haven’t started watching Odd Mom Out, now’s the time to dive in!
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Summary
Jenna Marks candidly discusses the ups and downs of motherhood, her experiences in New York City, and the liberating aspects of being in her forties. With humor and honesty, she offers advice for parents navigating the chaotic journey of raising children in a bustling urban environment, while sharing personal anecdotes that resonate with many.
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