Updated: Jan. 5, 2021
Originally Published: Sep. 4, 2016
Bathing with my toddler is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of. Yet, it’s baffling how some people choose to sexualize such a simple, everyday activity. How did we arrive at a point where we can accept provocative advertisements featuring adult entertainers, while simultaneously condemning parents for sharing a bath with their young children? It’s time to rethink our priorities.
Sharing bath time with little ones is not only more convenient, it often makes for a delightful bonding experience. Many parents, myself included, view this practice as a natural expression of love and care, akin to breastfeeding or co-sleeping. It’s all about nurturing and protecting our children, not about anything inappropriate.
What Other Parents Are Saying
Don’t just take my word for it; here’s what some other parents have shared:
- “My partner and I bathed with our son until he was almost four. We want him to feel comfortable in his own skin and understand that bodies come in all shapes and sizes. Plus, it helps him learn about hygiene.” — Emily
- “We still shower with our nearly 6-year-old. It’s either that or he skips cleaning up! My older son has been showering solo for almost two years, and he decided when he was ready.” — Mark
- “My 4-year-old sometimes asks to bathe with me, but she usually enjoys her own space! Now that we have a newborn, bath time has become a family affair, and my eldest is great at helping wash her sister!” — Sarah
- “I regularly bathe with my 2-year-old. We have a blast splashing around, and she’s even learned to wash her hair, which she prefers over me doing it!” — Jessica
- “My little ones, ages 4 and 2, join me in the shower whenever they want. I’ll know it’s time to stop when they start feeling uncomfortable about it.” — Alex
None of these parents have expressed any concern about inappropriateness or embarrassment regarding their shared bath experiences. Why? Because it’s a natural part of parenting.
It’s unfortunate that those with the loudest, most critical opinions often remain anonymous, making many of us feel like we have to justify basic parenting choices. From breastfeeding to co-sleeping and everything in between, when did these choices become anyone else’s business?
To all the moms and dads who are unbothered by the naysayers, keep doing you. Those who criticize often lack real parenting experience, or worse, they’re just self-righteous know-it-alls.
Now, if you’ll excuse me, my 3-year-old is demanding his bath time, which means it’s playtime for us in the tub!
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In summary, bathing with your toddler is a perfectly normal part of parenting, and it fosters a bond between you and your child. Let’s stop worrying about what others think and focus on what truly matters—our children’s happiness and well-being.
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