Hey there, new mama. I spotted you the other day, and I felt compelled to share something important: you’re doing an incredible job.
The whirlwind of emotions and challenges in those early months can easily fade from memory once your little one grows up. But seeing you brought it all rushing back.
I recalled the overwhelming surge of hormones that can turn your day upside down, making you cry over the most absurd things—like a pet food commercial. I remembered the sleepless nights that push you to the edge of exhaustion, where you might find yourself imagining the rhythmic sound of your breast pump chanting “Justin Timberlake, Justin Timberlake.” Or was that just me?
I remembered days so tiring that you could nod off while standing, or risk drowning in a glass of water. And let’s not forget the times when personal hygiene takes a backseat, because your priority is ensuring your little one has everything they need. I’ve certainly worn the same messy bun for days at a time. No judgment here—rock those sweatpants, Momma. You do you.
I recalled how a mere five-minute shower, even one that feels like it’s set to “eternal hell fire,” can help you reclaim a sliver of sanity. And the 3 a.m. panic when it’s just you and a wailing baby, desperately bouncing and shushing, feeling like nothing is working. But then, that moment of triumph when your baby finally settles on your chest, and you think, “I can do this.”
I remembered the self-doubt that creeps in, questioning your instincts and grappling with the relentless mom guilt. It’s an exhausting cycle, one I know well.
I wanted to remind you to be gentle with yourself. This journey is no walk in the park, especially for a first-time mom. You’ve created a whole human being! That tiny person will grow to be one of the greatest joys in your life. Sure, they might spill juice on the carpet and break your favorite things, but your love for them will know no bounds. They will surely test your patience time and again, but know that you’ll be in this together.
I saw you, and I remembered all of this. And I want you to know—every bit of it is worth it. Just hang in there.
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Summary
This heartfelt message to new moms acknowledges the challenges and emotions they face in the early days of motherhood. It emphasizes the importance of self-compassion and reminds them that the journey, with all its ups and downs, is truly rewarding.
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