Dear Ethan,
It’s hard to believe that the summer is winding down and you’re on the brink of your junior year. There was a time when I eagerly awaited the start of the school year, marking the days on the calendar, yearning for the comfort of our routine. As a working parent, I often felt guilty for not being around during those long, sunny afternoons. I mistakenly thought that if you were in school with your friends, I was somehow giving you what you needed.
Now, I realize how quickly time flies, and I find myself wanting to hit pause. I still remember the tears I shed as you boarded the school bus for your first day of kindergarten. That moment was a wake-up call that you wouldn’t remain my little boy forever. Your first soccer game was another milestone—the thrill of watching you play was bittersweet, a reminder of how fast you’re growing up. Each time the national anthem plays at your games, I can’t help but feel a lump in my throat.
The reality is that time is slipping away. There are just a couple more first-day-of-school photos left to take. Soon, you’ll be getting your driver’s license. Your soccer and lacrosse seasons are dwindling as well.
You might not know this, but social media is filled with parents sharing nostalgic letters about their seniors’ “lasts.” I can’t help but get emotional reading them, and I’m sure I’ll have my fair share of tears next year. But we’re not there yet—this is your junior year, and it’s a crucial time to prepare for what lies ahead. Before the whirlwind of your senior year begins, here are some thoughts to carry with you into this pivotal time:
- This Year Matters: Your junior year is key. By senior year, decisions will be made, and college coaches will have their eyes on you. Focus on your grades, sports, and SAT prep. Every bit of effort counts, whether it’s on the field, in the classroom, or during tutoring sessions.
- Be a Role Model: Younger kids look up to you now that you’re an upperclassman. Your actions influence those around you, so lead by example. To your little cousins, you’re a hero. Embrace that role with kindness, honesty, and humility.
- Prioritize Family: I know we can be a bit annoying, but we love you more than you realize. Talk to Dad and me—we’re here to support you. Don’t forget about your grandparents; they cherish the moments you share with them. And always be kind to your sister; she’ll be your ally long after we’re gone.
- Choose Wisely: I know you feel invincible, but remember that one poor choice can have lasting consequences. Don’t drink and drive, and don’t get into a car with someone who has. Always make safe decisions—if you find yourself in a tricky situation, never hesitate to call me. And if you’re exploring intimacy, make sure you’re responsible; your safety is paramount.
- Think About Your Future: It might seem far off, but entering the workforce is closer than you think. Consider what you love and how it could translate into a career. Whether it’s in an office, on a field, or outdoors, find your passion and pursue it.
- Enjoy the Ride: This is your second-to-last year of high school—make the most of it! Go to football games, hang out with friends, and indulge in pizza. The real world will be waiting for you soon enough.
Before you know it, you’ll be out on your own. I hope I’ve given you a strong foundation to build your life upon. As you step into your junior year, know that I’m proud of the young man you’re becoming.
Love,
Mom
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