As a parent, it’s only natural to have a bucket list filled with dreams and aspirations—traveling to exotic locations, tasting gourmet cuisine, and checking off life’s milestones. However, currently, my “Forget It” list has become my guiding principle. Don’t get me wrong; I still long to visit Italy and indulge in all the pasta and wine, but for now, I’m prioritizing what really matters. With the chaos of daily life, my mental bandwidth just isn’t cut out for both lists. I’ve discovered that sometimes the best therapy is simply saying “forget it” to things that don’t spark joy or excitement. If something feels overwhelming, I just embrace the “forget it” attitude, and life feels a little easier. Here are ten of my biggest “forget its.”
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The Tupperware Dilemma
Since my little one learned to crawl, the Tupperware cabinet has been a never-ending source of frustration. It was his first babysitter, but trying to maintain order amidst the chaos of parenting is a battle I no longer fight. I’ve resigned to wrapping leftovers in plastic wrap and sipping chardonnay from my “forget it” wine glass. -
Sock Chaos
Life is too short to stress over mis-matched socks. I often find my kids wearing one sock or two that don’t match. So, I simply toss them into a drawer and think, “Forget it, I did my best!” -
The Junk Drawer
Cleaning out the junk drawer? No thanks! I prefer to dump everything into the trash, make room for more clutter, and call it a day. It saves me time and sanity. -
Drive-Thru Convenience
I need my caffeine fix, and if it means hitting the drive-thru, so be it. I can always declare another impromptu dinner out, and everyone is thrilled—especially when they’re in a food coma on the way home. -
White Lies for the Kids
When my kids ask about the Easter Bunny, I could take the time for a serious discussion, but sometimes, lying feels like the easier route. “Of course, that was him hopping around!” I say, handing them extra candy as I dodge the conversation. -
Swimsuit Shopping
Trying on swimsuits is a nightmare. If I can find one that looks decent while standing still, I’m going with it. “Forget it” has never felt so liberating! -
Fashion Freedom for Kids
Whether it’s fleece pajamas in summer or shorts in freezing temperatures, I let my kids choose their outfits. By the time I count to two for them to change, I just wave my hands and think, “Forget it, let them be!” -
Sugar Rush
During summer fun, I’m all for letting my kids enjoy Popsicles. I figure they’ll burn off the sugar. But when they start bouncing off the walls, I again resort to another “forget it” moment—handing them their iPads for some quiet time. -
Treating Myself
Every mom deserves a little indulgence. Whether it’s new shoes or a fancy dessert, I remind myself, “Forget it, I deserve this after all the hard work!” -
Dismissing Dislikes
If someone doesn’t like me, that’s their problem. My “forget it” attitude has attracted those who appreciate my authenticity, and that’s all that matters.
I know one day I’ll revisit my bucket list, but for now, I’m fully immersed in the joys and chaos of parenthood. I cherish the moments spent watching my kids relish in their choices, whether it’s too many Popsicles or mismatched socks. And you can bet I’ll be saying “yes” to that third glass of wine because, well, forget it!
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In summary, embracing a “forget it” mindset can be a refreshing approach to parenting. It allows for more joy, less stress, and a focus on what truly matters in life—spending time with loved ones, indulging in self-care, and celebrating the small victories.
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