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Your Miscarriage Is Not Your Fault
ParentingGet Pregnant FastI was just shy of three months pregnant when I experienced heavy bleeding and ultimately miscarried. It happened the day before my 12-week ultrasound, which is typically the milestone that gives you the green light to share your…
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How My Father’s Tragic Passing Inspired My Commitment to My Daughter
Parentinghome insemination syringeThe reality is stark: On July 8, 1980, my father, Samuel Carter, ended his life by taking a gun and pulling the trigger. I was only 13 years old, and my younger sister was just 9. He had…
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Tragic Gorilla Incident Sparks Online Outrage
low cost IUIIn a heartbreaking incident at the Cincinnati Zoo and Botanical Garden, a 17-year-old Western Lowland Gorilla was shot after a four-year-old boy managed to breach the enclosure. The child, who crawled under a barrier, was dragged and thrown…
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22 Advent Calendars for Adults: Because Why Should Kids Have All the Fun?
low cost IUIAs a child, the thrill of opening an advent calendar was unparalleled—especially when it involved chocolate. While my love for sweets persists, my palate has evolved over the years. The countdown to Christmas still excites me, particularly as…
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What I Learned About Womanhood from Judy Blume’s Novels
home insemination syringeIn the journey of a young woman’s life—marked by significant milestones such as the first menstruation, the first bra fitting, and the first romantic encounter—there exists an essential experience that often goes unrecognized: the initial reading of Judy…
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What “Voting with Your Vagina” Truly Signifies
home insemination syringeThe clock is ticking, and November 8 is almost here. On that day, our nation faces critical choices that will shape our lives and the futures of our children for years ahead. Yet, every time I share my…
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Reflections at 39: Gratitude and the Fragility of Life
home insemination syringeAs I reflect on my journey at 39, I find myself filled with gratitude for two specific aspects of my life: my health and my body. This sentiment is particularly poignant as I think back to the week…
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Nostalgic TV Hangouts from the ’80s and ’90s We Wish Existed Today
home insemination syringeUpdated: Aug. 2, 2016Originally Published: July 2, 2005Ah, the magic of television in the ’80s and ’90s—think oversized hairstyles, high-waisted jeans, and catchy theme melodies. The hangout spots featured in these shows were the ultimate destinations for the…
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Mansplaining Made Its Debut on ‘Jeopardy!’—And It Was Spot On
low cost IUIMansplaining, a term that epitomizes the condescending explanations often directed at women by men, recently made an appearance on the iconic game show “Jeopardy!”—and it couldn’t have been more fitting. The phenomenon is so pervasive in our society…
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Too Much Screen Time During a Pandemic? Seriously, Enough Already
low cost IUIOn Saturday, writer Alex Martin published an article titled “Children’s Screen Time Has Skyrocketed During the Pandemic, Worrying Parents and Experts.” Unsurprisingly, actual parents aren’t shocked by this. Martin shares alarmist anecdotes and figures about kids whose screen…
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At-home intracervical insemination (ICI) has become a popular choice for women and couples hoping to conceive in a comfortable, private setting. Whether you’re starting your fertility journey as a single parent, part of an LGBTQ+ family, or just seeking more control and intimacy in the process, at-home ICI gives you options.
- At Home Insemination: A Now-Guide for Timing, Talk, and Law
- At Home Insemination, Real Talk: Timing, Feelings, Next Steps
- At Home Insemination: A Grounded Plan Amid Fertility Buzz
- At-Home Insemination, Real Life: A Branching ICI Playbook
- At Home Insemination, Real Life: A Simple Plan for This Week
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At Home Insemination: A Now-Guide for Timing, Talk, and Law
Before you try at home insemination, run this quick checklist: Timing plan: You know how you’ll spot your fertile window (OPKs, cervical mucus, BBT, or a combo). Supplies: You have clean, body-safe tools and a simple setup you can repeat. Donor pathway: You’ve talked through expectations, boundaries, and consent—especially if using a known donor. Legal…
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At Home Insemination, Real Talk: Timing, Feelings, Next Steps
On a Tuesday night, “A.” closes three tabs at once: a movie list that’s making the rounds, a thread about a new season of a comfort-show romance, and a headline about reproductive health lawsuits. Then they open the notes app and type the same question they’ve typed before: “Are we doing this right?” If you’re…
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At Home Insemination: A Grounded Plan Amid Fertility Buzz
Myth: At home insemination is “easy”—just order supplies, follow a few steps, and you’re done. Reality: The mechanics can be simple, but real life adds noise: cycle uncertainty, relationship pressure, and a culture that treats pregnancy like entertainment. If your feed is full of celebrity pregnancy announcements, wellness trend roundups, and big market reports about…
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At-Home Insemination, Real Life: A Branching ICI Playbook
Before you try at home insemination, run this quick checklist: Timing plan: you have a way to estimate ovulation (OPKs, cervical mucus, BBT, or a clinic plan). Supplies: clean collection container (if needed), needleless syringe, towels, and a trash bag. Comfort: pillows, a calm room, and a plan for privacy and consent. Cleanup: soap and…
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At Home Insemination, Real Life: A Simple Plan for This Week
Some weeks, your feed is all baby bumps and cliffhangers. Other weeks, it’s a new season announcement, a celebrity pregnancy round-up, and a reminder that real life rarely follows a script. If you’re trying to conceive, that noise can hit hard. It can also make at home insemination feel more complicated than it needs to…
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At Home Insemination, Real Life: Talk, Timing, and Boundaries
Celebrity pregnancy headlines can make your group chat feel like a countdown clock. One minute you’re watching a new movie adaptation or binging a true-crime doc, and the next you’re spiraling about your own timeline. If you’re trying at home insemination, that noise can hit hard. Thesis: You don’t need a perfect plan—you need a…
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At Home Insemination: A Decision Guide When Baby News Pops Off
Before you try at home insemination, run this quick checklist. Timing plan: How will you estimate ovulation (OPKs, cervical mucus, cycle tracking)? Roles: Who preps the space, who tracks timing, who handles aftercare? Consent + comfort: What words mean “pause,” and what helps you feel safe? Supplies: Clean, body-safe items; avoid anything not meant for…
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At Home Insemination, IRL: A Calm Routine in a Noisy Feed
Before you try… run this quick checklist. Timing plan: you have a way to estimate ovulation (OPKs, cervical mucus, BBT, or a clinic-guided plan). Supplies: clean syringe, collection cup (if needed), towels, optional speculum, and a small trash bag. Comfort: pillows, a calm room, and a “pause button” plan if emotions spike. Safety basics: clean…
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At Home Insemination, IRL: A Clean, Confident ICI Routine
Before you try at home insemination, run this quick checklist: Timing plan: OPKs ready, a way to track symptoms, and a realistic window to try. Supplies: clean collection container, needleless syringe (or kit), towels, and a timer. Comfort setup: pillows, privacy, and a “no interruptions” block of time. Safety basics: clean hands, clean surfaces, and…
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At Home Insemination: A Real-Life Timing Guide Amid Baby Buzz
Is your feed full of celebrity pregnancy announcements—and you’re wondering if your timing is “off”? Are you trying to keep at home insemination simple, but every headline makes it feel complicated? Do you want a real-life plan that fits irregular schedules, irregular cycles, or both? Yes, baby news is everywhere right now—between entertainment roundups, TV…