When I was in my twenties, the thought of aging felt like a distant fantasy. My forties and fifties seemed like a lifetime away—mostly because they were! If I had taken a moment to envision what midlife would entail, I would have probably pictured myself in stretchy polyester pants, wearing pantyhose with reinforced toes, and clutching one of those emergency alert devices around my neck for when I inevitably “fall and can’t get up.” Oh, and let’s not forget an abundance of sensible shoes.
Fortunately, I can still zip my pants (well, they have zippers, at least), and I haven’t yet resorted to using the emergency buzzer or grabber tool. However, I have grown to appreciate a solid pair of support hose. While my actual midlife experience hasn’t turned out to be the horror story my 21-year-old self imagined, I still have a few amusing yet mildly disheartening truths about this stage of life that I’d like to share.
Comfort Takes Center Stage in Your Undergarments
It’s not that there’s no room for sexy lingerie in your life, but let’s be real: comfort is now the top priority. While I might still embrace a little flair from time to time, I’ve reached a point where I no longer fret about how my husband perceives my practical undergarments. It is what it is.
Dark Hairs Appear Out of Nowhere
Regardless of your natural hair color, you’ll find that random dark hairs make their unwelcome debut on your face and body. It’s an immutable law of nature. Most notably, these rogue hairs love to make an appearance on your chin, and sometimes even in unexpected places. Just when you think you’ve escaped the embarrassment, you’ll discover one sprouting on your neck. I once had a colleague mistake it for string—awkward moment, to say the least!
Pro Tip: Use your rearview mirror to inspect for these surprises, but always have a pair of tweezers on hand (just not while driving). Plucking at a red light? Not the best look!
The Constant Fear of ‘Sneeze-Pee Fusion’
Let’s cut to the chase: a sudden sneeze, cough, or hearty laugh can lead to a little accident. You’ll suddenly remember all those times you chuckled at elderly women discreetly tossing Poise pads into their carts. And yes, the sneeze-pee fusion might just be the universe’s way of giving you a karmic nudge. Spoiler alert: it is.
Your High School Anthems Are Now ‘Classic Rock’
It’s a harsh reality when the songs you once grooved to in the backseat have become relics of classic rock. I’m bracing myself for the day when some young DJ refers to Pat Benatar as an oldie. A small piece of me dies inside every time I hear it.
Despite the need for comfier underwear and more time with my tweezers, midlife isn’t a sorrowful period. I still have the energy to chase after my kids, run a 5K, and even outpace some of my younger friends. And yes, occasionally, I catch the eye of a man—though they might just be assessing whether I need help crossing the street. But let me have my dreams, alright?
Many of my friends in their 40s and 50s find that sex becomes more enjoyable and wisdom flows abundantly at this age. I think it’s about gaining confidence and letting go of the need for others’ approval.
We’ve all had that moment when we catch a glimpse of our reflection and notice an unexpected hair or feel the weight of those cotton briefs in our hands at Target, whispering, “Ooh, these look comfy!” It’s all part of the midlife experience.
And you know what? I’m not ashamed. Those sensible shoes? They’re incredibly comfortable.
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In summary, midlife brings its own set of challenges, but it also offers unique joys and newfound confidence. Embrace this phase with a smile and a comfy pair of shoes.
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