When our two oldest kids boarded the bus for sleepaway camp seven weeks ago, I was inundated with articles on how to prepare them for departure—what to pack, how to say goodbye, and how to write a heartfelt letter. But as they return, what should parents expect? Here are some essential tips for a smooth re-entry:
1. Emotions Will Run High
You might envision your kids leaping off the bus into your arms, excited to share how much they missed you. While this may happen, the reality can also include a mix of joy and sadness. They might express excitement but also reveal feelings of melancholy about leaving camp behind. This emotional duality is completely normal, so be prepared for a range of reactions on the ride home.
2. Be a Good Listener
Every child processes their camp experience differently. Our daughter, for instance, will chatter non-stop in the car, reliving every moment from the past weeks. In contrast, our son might respond with short, one-word answers like “Great” or “Awesome.” Resist the urge to bombard them with questions; instead, allow them to share their stories at their own pace. The key is to listen actively.
3. Rest is Crucial
While you might feel refreshed after a quieter home, your campers will likely be completely worn out. Whether they spent one week or eight at camp, they’ve probably had less sleep than they’re accustomed to and will return home in need of rest. Expect them to crash right after devouring everything in the pantry and to need extra sleep for days. Avoid scheduling too much in the immediate aftermath of their return.
4. Prepare for Some Mess
They’re coming home dirty, and some of their belongings might be missing or damaged. This is all part of the camp experience! Don’t fret over their grimy feet or missing sweatshirts; they were too busy enjoying themselves to worry about cleanliness. Allow them to take a long shower, sort through their things, and let go of any attachments to the items that didn’t make it back.
5. Acknowledge Their Growth
When your campers return, you might notice they’ve grown physically and emotionally. They may appear taller, tanner, and even more mature. Camp often instills newfound confidence as they forge friendships and navigate challenges independently. Take the time to appreciate these changes and get to know this evolving version of your child.
6. Adjusting to Home Rules
Coming home can feel like a shock for campers who have enjoyed a taste of freedom. After weeks of minimal rules, they might resist returning to household expectations. Remember, they need time to readjust. Put yourself in their flip-flops and allow for a period of transition.
7. Understand Their Camp Sickness
Many campers return feeling “camp sick,” missing their friends and the camp environment. They’ve spent weeks bonding with peers and might withdraw as they deal with their emotions. Don’t take this personally; they’re navigating their feelings, and while it may sting, they’ll reconnect with you soon.
8. Stay Open-Minded
What if your child comes back with a negative experience and is hesitant about returning to camp? Perhaps they struggled to make friends or didn’t enjoy the activities. It’s vital to listen and give them space to express their feelings. Communicate with the camp about any feedback, and remember, it’s okay if they need a break or want to explore other options. Our daughter faced a tough time at her first camp but later found a place that felt like home.
9. Keep the Bigger Picture in Mind
If your child returns home a bit worn out, dirty, and dealing with mixed emotions, remember that this is a sign of a summer well spent! Celebrate their adventures, and take a moment to appreciate your own resilience during this time. You made it through!
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In summary, the transition home from overnight camp can be filled with mixed emotions and unexpected challenges. By understanding your child’s experience and giving them space to adjust, you can help make their re-entry as smooth as possible.
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