Top 5 Comments To Avoid When Speaking to a Mama-To-Be Over 40

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Pregnancy at any age brings its unique joys and challenges, but for those embarking on this journey after 40, the experience can come with its own set of surprises. For one, I discovered the so-called “pregnancy glow” to be a miraculous transformation. Honestly, this homemade blend of hormones could rival any fountain of youth! However, what remains consistent across the ages is the unsolicited advice and comments from well-meaning folks. Here are the top five phrases you should steer clear of when chatting with an expectant mother in her 40s:

1. “I know someone who had an ‘Oops Baby’ too.”
   Oh, the assumptions! Let’s clear this up: getting pregnant after 40 often requires a bit of planning and effort. This little miracle wasn’t just a spontaneous decision; it took more coordination than a NASA mission!
2. “Did you realize you’ll be nearly 60 by the time your kid graduates?”
   Wait, what?! Yes, I can add and subtract just fine, thank you! Attending my child’s graduation at 60? I’ll be the vibrant one in the crowd, showcasing my skills in fertility and energy.
3. “Wow! You’re really starting over.”
   What a clever observation! Clearly, I must have overlooked the other valid reasons for the age gap between my children, like career choices or personal journeys. Nope, definitely just wanted to trade in the older versions!
4. “Your body isn’t 20 anymore.”
   Thanks for the reminder! I’ve had two decades to adjust to these changes. But let’s not forget the wealth of experience, patience, and confidence I’m bringing to this new chapter — valuable assets for this baby!
5. “You’re almost old enough to be a grandmother.”
   Last I checked, becoming a grandmother isn’t just about age; it requires being a mother to the mother. Just to clarify, my own mother is fiercely protective of her title, and she’s thrilled about this new addition!

The age-old saying goes: “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything at all.” A mama-to-be over 40 knows exactly how old she is and doesn’t need help figuring out what that means in terms of motherhood. She’s likely pondered the implications deeply and may even have some fascinating insights to share if you’re willing to listen. And if you’re at a loss for words, simply compliment her on that radiant pregnancy glow!

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In summary, when engaging with a mama-to-be over 40, it’s best to avoid age-related comments and assumptions. Instead, focus on positivity and encouragement. After all, every pregnancy is a unique journey filled with its own set of joys and challenges.