Motherhood is truly a peculiar experience. Think about it — when else in life would we become so engrossed in someone else’s bathroom habits or debate endlessly about which shoe goes on which foot? Yet, at its core, motherhood is one of the most instinctive roles we can take on. If it weren’t, humanity would have vanished long ago. The blend of the absurd and the ordinary is just one of the many contradictions that come with being a mom. Consider this…
Desiring solitude, yet feeling lost when they’re gone.
I can think of countless moments when all I longed for was a quiet minute to myself. As much as I adore my kids, there were times I thought I might just lose it if they asked for one more thing. But then came that rare occasion when I found myself on a vacation without the little ones. And what happened? I spent the entire first day missing them to the point of feeling smothered — quite similar to how I feel when they won’t leave me alone. Isn’t it ironic?
Recognizing their flaws, but feeling defensive when others mention them.
Let’s say my daughter has a knack for whining. She could easily win an award for it. I can vent about it all day long because I’m her mom. But if someone else dares to say, “Your child is quite the whiner,” we’re going to have a serious chat. Similarly…
Disciplining them regularly, yet feeling upset when others do the same.
As the main disciplinarian in our home (often dubbed “not the favorite parent”), I’m the one handing out consequences. But the moment someone else steps in to correct my children, even if they deserve it, I become quite annoyed. And if it’s my partner, who has every right to discipline, I often think he’s being too tough — even if his approach is gentler than mine.
Encouraging them to eat, but hoarding your own snacks.
When my kids were younger and I worried about their diet consisting solely of air and crumbs, I tried every trick in the book to get them to take a few bites. But if they eye my stash of gourmet chocolate? No way. That’s mine! Which is precisely why I often find myself sneaking a bite in the closet. Now go find your own snack and share it with your sibling!
Hoping they develop nerdy interests, yet dreading potential teasing.
As I envision my kids entering their teenage years, I can’t help but worry. High school can be tough. From a parenting viewpoint, I’d love for my son to be the studious, pocket-protector-wearing captain of the chess club (those kids tend to avoid the typical teenage troubles). But then, I also dread the thought of him being bullied for it. What’s worse: my kids taking the reckless risks I did as a teen (yikes!) or staying low-key and facing ridicule? I’m torn.
Feeling frazzled throughout the day, but finding them adorable once they’re asleep.
There are days (especially during summer break) when my kids are at each other’s throats, bickering from dawn till dusk. I often fantasize about a brief moment of silence. Yet, the moment they drift off to sleep and I peek at their peaceful faces, all the chaos of the day vanishes. I see their innocence and feel grateful for the privilege of being their mom. Until, of course, they wake me up to announce they “can’t sleep.”
Motherhood: The Most Infuriating, Rewarding, Joyous, and Gut-Wrenching Role You’ll Ever Navigate
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In summary, motherhood is a blend of contradictions that can leave us feeling overwhelmed yet profoundly fulfilled. It’s a journey filled with highs and lows, laughter and tears, all wrapped in love.
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