Dear Middle Child,
I see you nestled between your brothers, a unique presence that often goes unnoticed. You may not be old enough to partake in everything your older brother does, but you seem to handle it with grace. I adore the mischievous little grin that appears when he finds himself in hot water; it’s clear you’re taking mental notes on what to avoid.
You don’t demand attention in the same way others might; instead, you thrive in your own imaginative realm. The truth is, I was juggling so much when you came along that I couldn’t hover over you as much as I would have liked. Your older brother was a whirlwind, and I was busy navigating the chaos of raising two little ones. Yet, I can see that you’ve embraced this freedom, relishing the moments when you can simply be yourself without needing the spotlight.
Of course, there are times when life feels unfair, and I know that can be tough. Yet, you always find a way to make the best of it. You play the role of both the older sister and the younger sister, offering protection while also being cared for. Your brothers love you fiercely, even if they don’t always express it. Because you didn’t have exclusive one-on-one time with me like your siblings did, we cherish our special moments together. I can tell they mean the world to you.
I know it was difficult when I had to stop carrying you after your little brother arrived, just as you were mastering the art of walking. But I noticed something remarkable: instead of feeling defeated, you showed determination. You seemed ignited by a new fire, quickly finding your footing and growing increasingly independent. You embraced your role as a big sister so eagerly, always wanting to help with the baby.
Your resilience and strength are truly inspiring. You know how to nurture, and you understand the value of patience. You accept the phrase “No, not yet” with surprising grace, embodying the understanding that good things take time. Your stubbornness drives you to push through challenges, ensuring that your presence is felt. You give love wholeheartedly, and your capacity to care is boundless.
You have transformed my life. You expanded my heart in ways I never thought possible. Before you, I only knew the love of one child and wondered if I could replicate that feeling. But you showed me that love multiplies. You gave me the courage to embrace motherhood with open arms, even on the exhausting days when I felt stretched thin. Thanks to you, I realized I could navigate the joys and challenges of raising three children.
You are a treasured addition to our family. While some might argue that middle children get the short end of the stick, I see a different story unfolding with you. Your contentment speaks volumes. You thrive amidst your siblings, enjoying the blend of personalities around you. Though this dynamic may shift someday—perhaps when your brother gets his license—my sweet girl, continue to be unwavering, patient, and resilient. Your gifts, however subtle in this bustling household, are never overlooked.
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In summary, my dear middle child, you are a vibrant, essential part of our family tapestry. Your strength, determination, and love shine brightly, and I’m grateful every day for the joy you bring into our lives.
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